Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Last year my DH was moaning about us having a sexless marriage when in fact we had sex at least once a week. This went on for awhile and then I told him OK, we are going to have sex every night. This lasted about one week until he said one night that he was too tired. So we went back to our 1+ a week and there have been no complaints since then. I'm glad he called it quits because I was sore and tired.
I learned that I didn't want to have sex every day when my wife & I were trying to conceive. Daily sex just because it's on the to do list gets old fast. On the other hand, the once every six weeks we slipped into during the first few years after having kids was pretty awful too. Lots of numbers between 1 and 42. We're striving for something between feast and famine.