Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you have no love lost for this guy but he’s going to have to be in your life for the next 18 years minimum because you have his child. He is entitled to make decisions just as much as you and you may not like some of the ones he makes. From your comments on your salary and loans I think you seem a little naive about how much raising a child is going to cost, even with child support. Are you sure this is what you want for your child?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, he's not the father. The gold digging gig is up and now you're damaged goods. Sorry it didn't work out.
Why would she bother to post about this on an anonymous forum if he wasn’t the father?
Yea I’m a gold digger, I want all his money to pay for my plasctic surgery
OP, you don't have to engage with these people who are clearly bored. I'm sure it's just 1 or 2 posters with nothing else to do. Best of luck to you.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, he's not the father. The gold digging gig is up and now you're damaged goods. Sorry it didn't work out.
Why would she bother to post about this on an anonymous forum if he wasn’t the father?
Yea I’m a gold digger, I want all his money to pay for my plasctic surgery
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yeah, he's not the father. The gold digging gig is up and now you're damaged goods. Sorry it didn't work out.
Why would she bother to post about this on an anonymous forum if he wasn’t the father?
Anonymous wrote:Does the baby's father have other kids?
Do you have other kids?
Are either of you married to other people?
Why does he think you've slept with other men, if you say y'all were in a rship?
Everything isn't adding up, seems you're not giving us the full story.
Anonymous wrote:Yeah, he's not the father. The gold digging gig is up and now you're damaged goods. Sorry it didn't work out.
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I am 6 months pregnant. He makes 6-7 figures every year and I am stuck with $72 k salary. I do need the help financially because I have horrible loans from grad school. I am in California. I do believe my child is entitled to be supported from me and the father. I do plan on putting his name in the birth certificate but he will take my last name. If he wants visitation that’s fine, I would want him to be in his child’s life. At the end of the day, I can’t make him though.
Anonymous wrote:You can file for child support, even without his acknowledgement of paternity, and the court will order a DNA test - he will have to comply or risk arrest.
It’s not a fast process, and is unlikely to end in him “wanting” to be involved with the child, but it may bring you some financial relief.