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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

I think this is the one: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

As a PP said, ultrasound measurements, particularly weight estimates, late in pregnancy are notoriously inaccurate. I had several friends due around the same time I was. All were under the care of OBs and were sent for growth scans. All were told they were having babies over 8.5 pounds. Only one baby ended up over 8. I saw midwives and zero ultrasounds after my 20 week anatomy scan. 2 days before baby was born, midwife estimated baby to be 7 pounds 14 ounces and 21 inches long ("he's lanky!"). He was 8 pounds exactly and, yep, 21 inches.

Did you or any of your friends have gestational diabetes controlled by insulin?

Stop it with suggesting that OP turn to non-medical sources for her care. She needs to see an OB.

Huh? Everyone on here has recommended seeing an OB. EBB is written by a nurse PhD and medical researcher in consultation with physicians.

Does information scare you?

Anonymous wrote:How can he not have a partner OB he works with in cases like this that he's comfortable referring to?

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Anonymous wrote:Shady Grove has a level 3 NICU. Why don't you want to deliver there? Also, you will most likely be induced prior to 40 weeks, so waiting and walking in while in labor (unless it happens naturally before 39 weeks) is unlikely.

Op here. I had 2 relatives who had bad experiences there, not in the maternity ward but it makes me apprehensive about receiving care there.

Shady grove is only wonderful for maternity care. I had a very preterm baby there who had wonderful care, and has done amazingly well--you would never know she was born 14 weeks early. I also had a baby who was born with blood sugar issues due to being LGA, and they were fantastic with her care as well.

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

I think this is the one: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

As a PP said, ultrasound measurements, particularly weight estimates, late in pregnancy are notoriously inaccurate. I had several friends due around the same time I was. All were under the care of OBs and were sent for growth scans. All were told they were having babies over 8.5 pounds. Only one baby ended up over 8. I saw midwives and zero ultrasounds after my 20 week anatomy scan. 2 days before baby was born, midwife estimated baby to be 7 pounds 14 ounces and 21 inches long ("he's lanky!"). He was 8 pounds exactly and, yep, 21 inches.

Did you or any of your friends have gestational diabetes controlled by insulin?

Stop it with suggesting that OP turn to non-medical sources for her care. She needs to see an OB.

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Anonymous wrote:Shady Grove has a level 3 NICU. Why don't you want to deliver there? Also, you will most likely be induced prior to 40 weeks, so waiting and walking in while in labor (unless it happens naturally before 39 weeks) is unlikely.

Op here. I had 2 relatives who had bad experiences there, not in the maternity ward but it makes me apprehensive about receiving care there.

Anonymous wrote:How can he not have a partner OB he works with in cases like this that he's comfortable referring to?

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

I think this is the one: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

As a PP said, ultrasound measurements, particularly weight estimates, late in pregnancy are notoriously inaccurate. I had several friends due around the same time I was. All were under the care of OBs and were sent for growth scans. All were told they were having babies over 8.5 pounds. Only one baby ended up over 8. I saw midwives and zero ultrasounds after my 20 week anatomy scan. 2 days before baby was born, midwife estimated baby to be 7 pounds 14 ounces and 21 inches long ("he's lanky!"). He was 8 pounds exactly and, yep, 21 inches.

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

I think this is the one: https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

As a PP said, ultrasound measurements, particularly weight estimates, late in pregnancy are notoriously inaccurate. I had several friends due around the same time I was. All were under the care of OBs and were sent for growth scans. All were told they were having babies over 8.5 pounds. Only one baby ended up over 8. I saw midwives and zero ultrasounds after my 20 week anatomy scan. 2 days before baby was born, midwife estimated baby to be 7 pounds 14 ounces and 21 inches long ("he's lanky!"). He was 8 pounds exactly and, yep, 21 inches.

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

https://evidencebasedbirth.com/does-gestational-diabetes-always-mean-a-big-baby-and-induction/

Those articles are years old, and they are not written by a doctor.

Please find a new doctor to discuss this with. You want a safe birth for yourself and your baby.

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!

https://evidencebasedbirth.com/evidence-for-induction-or-c-section-for-big-baby/

https://evidencebasedbirth.com/does-gestational-diabetes-always-mean-a-big-baby-and-induction/

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Anonymous wrote:That's really weird. Maybe his insurance lapsed or recently had a traumatic delivery or something.

That his job!!!!

I was trying to say in a delicate way that maybe he had a stillborn or neonatal death recently with a high-risk mom. Doctors are human beings and sometimes a patient's death hits them hard.
I doubt that explanation though, because you could easily just do a c-section if you were really that concerned. Unless OP is refusing an elective C.

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Anonymous wrote:I would call this doctor back, say no OB would take me at this late date and let him know that you’ve decided to have the baby at home. Preferably leave that as a message.

She's already been discharged from care due to being high risk (insulin dependent, out of control blood sugars, macrosomia) and her original OB cannot care for her anymore, it happens. She has already been referred, but doesn't want to see that OB for whatever reason. Your advice would make her seem crazy.

OP It doesn't seem like you understand you are a high risk patient, and both you and you baby can have serious outcomes during pregnancy, birth, and even after birth. You really should see who were referred to.

Op here. The baby hasn't been diagnosed with macrosomia yet btw and my blood sugars are 95% under control. I am only on bedtime insulin at a low dosage and my MFM said my case isn't that serious at all. My last growth scan was 32 weeks and baby was measuring in the 99th percentile (he's also very tall btw). I will have another growth scan soon to see where he is at. I may be diagnosed with macrosomia then, but not yet.

It's not possible to diagnose macrosomia until after the baby is born, because late pregnancy prenatal measurements can be wildly inaccurate. All they can do until s/he is born is make an educated guess.

There is a great article on Evidence Based Birth about macrosomia and the shoulder dystocia risks for a baby whose mom has insulin-dependent GD.

Op here. Do you mind sharing that article? Would love to read it, thanks!