I am one of the "two cousins" mentioned in this post, and as such I feel obligated to put in my two cents. As a millennial who graduated college and started working within the last decade, I've had a chance to see how my friends and I have navigated our first few jobs, med school, business school, and other post-undergraduate ventures. We are all roughly 8-10 years out of college now. Many of my friends graduated from UVA, Tech, JMU, GMU, UMD, Georgetown, GW, and other nearby campuses to give you an impression of the pool of folks we're talking about. Some of my friends are doing perfectly well on Wall Street or in Silicon Valley, some have stayed in the DC Metro area, some have traveled to Africa or Asia to do aid and development work, some are just graduating dental school or medical school and starting their residencies. What I've learned is that it really doesn't matter what college we all went to. We all have similar or equivalent jobs, and the college we put on our resumes now is just a nice coffee topic. What has really counted in the working world is the intrinsic motivation, drive, and overall happiness of the individual. I have some friends who blindly followed a trajectory that their parents set them on (med school, business school, etc.). Those who didn't choose these tracks on their own have almost all dropped out due to disinterest or lack of motivation or plain misery and unhappiness. Those who were intrinsically passionate and entered the field out of their own freedom have typically flourished.
My brother and I stayed in the area and I work as a web app developer for an financial investment firm while my brother works in IT auditing for a financial agency. We both make $130-140K currently, both having hit the six figures before we were 30. My fiancee is a Nurse Practitioner and is about to graduate with her MS in Nursing from UVA this May. I think any parent would be proud of us. Honestly, in the end it's not about a salary-measuring contest. Most of my cousins seem to believe in boasting about who makes more money in this economy as a measure of status and self-worth. I can assure you that anyone as poised, eloquent, and prescient about the world as I have tried to be is worth a lot more than a ruthless gold digger.
I don't know which cousin wrote the comment below, but I find it ironic that he or she felt the need to describe me and my brother, but neglected to describe anything about their own background. I suppose it's fitting, because I happen to know that none of them went anywhere good... not even anything like GMU
Best regards,
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Anonymous wrote:Just Missed UVA.
Need one for GMU.
Generic Mediocre University?
I have two cousins.
The first cousin attended VA tech for Computer Sciences and got kicked out for poor academic performances. He transferred to GMU and did well there. Got a job in the Federal Govt. and is a now a GS-14. Not great but good.
The second cousin attended UVA for Environmental Engineering at the same time as the first cousin. He graduated from UVA with honors and found himself jobless for 11 months. He is making much less than money than the first cousin.
In terms of CS and Engineering majors, GMU, UVA and VA Tech are pretty much the same, IMHO.
My take: you are jealous of your “cousin” who went to UVA.