Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The immediate above poster posting again. STA has the boys play "crab football" or something like that usually. Occasionally they do something more mundane like basketball. They're really looking more for sportsmanship, behavior, cooperation, etc. than athletic ability. Poor athletic ability likely won't hurt you, but spectacular ability could help a little.
I knew about that game during my son's year, and one Beauvoir/STA parent in the know panicked me about how they want to see good sportsmanship so your kid should be saying things like, "Nice shot!" whenever some other kid made a shot or something. Apparently the word must have gone around because my son said every single kid was yelling "good job! nice shot! good one!" during the visit. They should make their way over to the Beauvoir playground and watch them. Not always nice.
Oh my god. Can STA do that?!?. Secretly observe our children while they are on the Beauvoir playground to help them in their admissions decisions? Would this involve videotape also? This has to be a violation of our constitutional/privacy rights and Beauvoir school policy. Perhaps we can draft a pre-emptive letter to STA warning them against considering such a thing?!?!
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Whoever said I was or wasn't affiliated with the school myself? Whoever said I couln't be biased and have facts? As a matter of fact, I have a tremendous amount of factual information. It's my interpretation of that information that is biased -- as almost anyone's is to some degree or another.
Yes, I do. I freely admit it! I've never had a child rejected from STA, been fired from there, etc., but I have plenty of reasons to not like the place.
Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do. I freely admit it! I've never had a child rejected from STA, been fired from there, etc., but I have plenty of reasons to not like the place.
Things like... kids taking nonconsensual, "inappropriate" pictures while changing in the pool locker room... and parents not even being notified about what happened. All in all, that's actually not even that bad. The kids were being silly, etc., whatever, though I think not notifying the parents is really quite dumb. I'd go on with much worse, but that wouldn't be fair because there are plenty of people who would know the identity of the people in the scenarios cited.
That said, I'm certainly biased!
Anonymous wrote:Very reasonable, OP... but to be even more reasonable: If your kid doesn't get into STA, it could be a turn of good fortune. STA does a pretty bad job of instilling one of the things that I think is most important to the heathy deveopment (and living) of prosocial people: empathy. I'd rather my children be nonacademic, manual laboring truly compassionate people than brilliant, entitled, insensitive elites. Not saying everyone who graduates from STA is like that -- or even most of the boys -- but it seems like a disproportionate number are... Boys who know how to act suave and polite and follow the rules. But take away that watchful eye of authority, and...
Anonymous wrote:The best way to prepare is to use previous editions of the actual test.