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Anonymous wrote:I assume that is because though the list is obviously written by a woman, she clearly wants to keep the genders of both their spouse and the affair partner a secret. This being 2018, she may be in an LGBTQQ relationship.

Because I might be able to identify her somehow? Honestly, the genders are helpful when reading this stuff. Her situation doesn't seem so very unique that I'll be able to say, oh, that's Mildred! And her wife Genevieve!
Plus, I kept reading DS as Dear Son, not Dear Spouse.

The poster clearly kept it purposely vague to open all possibilities -- a heterosexual, gay, or lesbian married/co-habitating couple, and/or a heterosexual, gay, or lesbian affair. That way the principles are not identifiable.

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A coworker got caught when her texts to AP were found by the other woman. The AP and OW were friends of coworker and her DH. The OW went to coworker's house and beat the tar out of her. Put her in the hospital. Another time, the same coworker got caught when the guy she was sending nude pics to showed his DW. I'm sure they weren't sent out of the blue, but apparently he had a crisis of conscience. Again, it was a couple they WERE friends with until the OW found out. Coworker is a beautiful, but deeply troubled Narcissist.

By "OW" do you mean her affair partner's wife? Because you are either getting your terminology all wrong, or this story is much more interesting than described.

I'm game for the much more interesting option. Please, please, please.

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Anonymous wrote:I assume that is because though the list is obviously written by a woman, she clearly wants to keep the genders of both their spouse and the affair partner a secret. This being 2018, she may be in an LGBTQQ relationship.

Because I might be able to identify her somehow? Honestly, the genders are helpful when reading this stuff. Her situation doesn't seem so very unique that I'll be able to say, oh, that's Mildred! And her wife Genevieve!
Plus, I kept reading DS as Dear Son, not Dear Spouse.

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A coworker got caught when her texts to AP were found by the other woman. The AP and OW were friends of coworker and her DH. The OW went to coworker's house and beat the tar out of her. Put her in the hospital. Another time, the same coworker got caught when the guy she was sending nude pics to showed his DW. I'm sure they weren't sent out of the blue, but apparently he had a crisis of conscience. Again, it was a couple they WERE friends with until the OW found out. Coworker is a beautiful, but deeply troubled Narcissist.

By "OW" do you mean her affair partner's wife? Because you are either getting your terminology all wrong, or this story is much more interesting than described.

Anonymous wrote:I assume that is because though the list is obviously written by a woman, she clearly wants to keep the genders of both their spouse and the affair partner a secret. This being 2018, she may be in an LGBTQQ relationship.

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A coworker got caught when her texts to AP were found by the other woman. The AP and OW were friends of coworker and her DH. The OW went to coworker's house and beat the tar out of her. Put her in the hospital. Another time, the same coworker got caught when the guy she was sending nude pics to showed his DW. I'm sure they weren't sent out of the blue, but apparently he had a crisis of conscience. Again, it was a couple they WERE friends with until the OW found out. Coworker is a beautiful, but deeply troubled Narcissist.

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Anonymous wrote:Amused that everyone is focused on golf guy's daughter finding out two decades or so later that he had an affair. So what? I'd be a different story if she'd walked in on him like the lady above - so images you can't get out of your head. But a distant memory of a affair? It's fine. Look at our current POTUS and our third-to-last one. Both kids lived through it as it happened, that's when you have to worry.

As a daughter, unfortunately I can tell you that you're wrong. Finding out details like this would permanently change my opinion of my dad/the kind of person he is...not make me stop loving him or anything, but I would never see him in the same way. And I'm in my 30s

This would be for most especially if the family broke up.

No one wants to find out their parent sucks as a person.

Oh good grief. Pretending people aren't human and are good is naive. If any mans daughter saw the things he fantasizes about in his mind she would never see him the same. Everything is fake to different degrees. When someone has lived long enough they know people who have never been exposed as an idiot are often bigger idiots than those who have been humbled by failures.

Human is burning the toast, shrinking a sweater, using unkind words when mad... throwing your family under the bus... is not just being human it's sucking as a human. Just own it don't try to down play it.

Since what, 1/3 - 1/2 of all people cheat, it is pretty human to cheat. It isn't pretty, it isn't kind. but it is human.

Since what 1/3 of woman are raped, it's pretty human to be raped.

No f-tard. Just because tons of people suck doesn't mean it human to suck.

It feels better to use "majority" to feel normal..."human", but it not human. It's inhumane.

1 in 6 are the victim of rape or attempted rape, so the number of 1/3 being raped is way far off from the truth

https://www.rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence

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Anonymous wrote:Amused that everyone is focused on golf guy's daughter finding out two decades or so later that he had an affair. So what? I'd be a different story if she'd walked in on him like the lady above - so images you can't get out of your head. But a distant memory of a affair? It's fine. Look at our current POTUS and our third-to-last one. Both kids lived through it as it happened, that's when you have to worry.

As a daughter, unfortunately I can tell you that you're wrong. Finding out details like this would permanently change my opinion of my dad/the kind of person he is...not make me stop loving him or anything, but I would never see him in the same way. And I'm in my 30s

This would be for most especially if the family broke up.

No one wants to find out their parent sucks as a person.

Oh good grief. Pretending people aren't human and are good is naive. If any mans daughter saw the things he fantasizes about in his mind she would never see him the same. Everything is fake to different degrees. When someone has lived long enough they know people who have never been exposed as an idiot are often bigger idiots than those who have been humbled by failures.

Human is burning the toast, shrinking a sweater, using unkind words when mad... throwing your family under the bus... is not just being human it's sucking as a human. Just own it don't try to down play it.

Since what, 1/3 - 1/2 of all people cheat, it is pretty human to cheat. It isn't pretty, it isn't kind. but it is human.

Since what 1/3 of woman are raped, it's pretty human to be raped.

No f-tard. Just because tons of people suck doesn't mean it human to suck.

It feels better to use "majority" to feel normal..."human", but it not human. It's inhumane.

Anonymous wrote:Stats show that more people cheat, than not, so if you think you're significant other isn't cheating, you never really know