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Anonymous wrote:OP, frankly, I would be disappointed if my son didn't take the lead on this. I want to teach my boys not to be so passive - they still need to do the asking.

But it's ok for your girls to be so passive?

I don't have girls. But if I did, I would not encourage them to ask boys out on dates, no.

If I may, How old are your children? Why do you feel girls shouldn't ask boys on dates?

I have a daughter, and would advise her not to do the asking, but I can't explain why. Maybe you can articulate better than I. (Other girls should do whatever they want, and I'd probably "let" my daughter ask if she insisted.)

And to OP -- thanks for sharing a very cute story!

I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

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I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

I am wondering what physiological differences between girls and boys preclude girls from asking boys to prom.

Because boys like to chase girls. They like to feel like they've won a prize. And that doesn't happen when the girl asks them.

[/b]+1 Men/boys don't like an easy chase. They are by nature hunters and like the thrill of the chase. [b]

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I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

I am wondering what physiological differences between girls and boys preclude girls from asking boys to prom.

Because boys like to chase girls. They like to feel like they've won a prize. And that doesn't happen when the girl asks them.

Anonymous wrote:The bible does not mention prom proposals but it does mention that men should take the lead with initiative. Here are relevant articles that might be helpful for context:

http://www.boundless.org/relationships/2007/biblic...ing-men-initiate-women-respond

http://www.boundless.org/relationships/2007/real-men-risk-rejection

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I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

I am wondering what physiological differences between girls and boys preclude girls from asking boys to prom.

Because boys like to chase girls. They like to feel like they've won a prize. And that doesn't happen when the girl asks them.

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I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

I am wondering what physiological differences between girls and boys preclude girls from asking boys to prom.

Because boys like to chase girls. They like to feel like they've won a prize. And that doesn't happen when the girl asks them.

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I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

I am wondering what physiological differences between girls and boys preclude girls from asking boys to prom.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, frankly, I would be disappointed if my son didn't take the lead on this. I want to teach my boys not to be so passive - they still need to do the asking.

But it's ok for your girls to be so passive?

I don't have girls. But if I did, I would not encourage them to ask boys out on dates, no.

If I may, How old are your children? Why do you feel girls shouldn't ask boys on dates?

I have a daughter, and would advise her not to do the asking, but I can't explain why. Maybe you can articulate better than I. (Other girls should do whatever they want, and I'd probably "let" my daughter ask if she insisted.)

And to OP -- thanks for sharing a very cute story!

Anonymous wrote:Well, this thread got weird.

Anonymous wrote:My son was asked by a girl and he was absolutely beaming the rest of the weekend.

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I am not a PP but I am raising daughters and I would not advise them to ask the boy to prom either. In my family, it is self explanatory. Kids do have a good understanding about man and woman, about their physiological and psychological differences (all kids are into the STEM), and what are those differences entail to. Girls been taught manners since the childhood and they have certain expectations from a man. At the age of 16-17 they don't need any explanation why she should not have to ask boy to prom. The girls know how to make a boy to ask them to prom. If you have not teach your girls a skill how to deal with a boy/man, maybe it is a good time to catch up on that.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, frankly, I would be disappointed if my son didn't take the lead on this. I want to teach my boys not to be so passive - they still need to do the asking.

But it's ok for your girls to be so passive?

I don't have girls. But if I did, I would not encourage them to ask boys out on dates, no.

If I may, How old are your children? Why do you feel girls shouldn't ask boys on dates?

I have a daughter, and would advise her not to do the asking, but I can't explain why. Maybe you can articulate better than I. (Other girls should do whatever they want, and I'd probably "let" my daughter ask if she insisted.)

And to OP -- thanks for sharing a very cute story!