Anonymous wrote:Op here. No pics were exchanged. Messages were all deleted. I agree with you 17:56. He was doing it to screw with my dh b/c his marriage failed after his ex cheated. He hasn't said anything after how was the weather, but I haven't checked Dh's messages in a while.

Wait a minute ... YOU check your husbands messages? You are the one with something to hide but you go behind your husband and check up on HIM?

Op here. No pics were exchanged. Messages were all deleted. I agree with you 17:56. He was doing it to screw with my dh b/c his marriage failed after his ex cheated. He hasn't said anything after how was the weather, but I haven't checked Dh's messages in a while.

Anonymous wrote:Thanks 10:20, I am not seeing a therapist. I was depressed as a SAHM but I went back to work and feel much better.

Yes there were things I would not want my husband to see.

Thinking yes, OP sent were pics.

She didn't deny it, either, and has posted in the thread numerous times ignoring the question.

I'm of the belief she probably sexted, which, ok, is pretty bad.

As the DH, I wouldn't want to know if she learned her lesson. That said, no one picked up on the groomsman's aggressive behavior. He was clearly rubbing it in the husband's face, and getting off on it.

The OP probably had no choice, and knew it. Because it was via text, there was a record, and her husband was going to find out eventually? Why? Because to the other guy it was never about the OP, but all about messing with the husband. Even if he didn't fully succeed.

OP, did your husband make you show him the texts? I hope not.

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Anonymous wrote:Hey 6:27. I was feeling overwhelmed and needed him to help me around the house more and he would basically tell me tough shit. I think he could have helped me more in that aspect and told me to talk to my doctor.

so you started sending naked pictures to another guy? I don't get this logic

Nice extrapolation but can you point out where she ever said she sent naked pics. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for the exchange of naked selfies and I love getting them. I just didn't see anywhere where OP mentioned that. Sexting is not confined to pics and doesn't always include pics.

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