Anonymous
10/31/2017 01:58
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Europeans have a different cultural approach to showering than Americans do.
In the sixties, remember when a girl would say she had to shampoo her hair Tuesday evening so she wouldn’t be available to do anything?
Or some girls would consider themselves total losers in the dating department because they spent their Saturday evenings at home, shampooing their hair?
And don’t get me started on the old ladies shampoo + set specials!!
Lol.
But now most people wash their hair and their bodies every morning.
Yes I have heard of the whole “no poo” movement plus how our skin needs to soak in its natural oils, etc.
But I do not buy it.
OP, a good catch is someone who won’t leave the house in the morning without a daily shower.
In the sixties, remember when a girl would say she had to shampoo her hair Tuesday evening so she wouldn’t be available to do anything?
Or some girls would consider themselves total losers in the dating department because they spent their Saturday evenings at home, shampooing their hair?
And don’t get me started on the old ladies shampoo + set specials!!
Lol.
But now most people wash their hair and their bodies every morning.
Yes I have heard of the whole “no poo” movement plus how our skin needs to soak in its natural oils, etc.
But I do not buy it.
OP, a good catch is someone who won’t leave the house in the morning without a daily shower.
ZachF
10/31/2017 01:12
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Anonymous wrote:I had to cut ties with a guy because I found out that he didn't use a washcloth to clean himself and only showered at night. Meaning if we had sex at night(after he showered), he wouldn't shower again until the next evening. Hygiene is a big deal to me.
I think wash clothes are unnecessary and I never use one. Butt...I use plenty of soap. Why do you care if a guy uses a wash cloth? I don't want some nasty wet wash cloth hanging in my shower.
I'm a guy and hygiene is important to me, as is climbing into bed for sex after a nice shower. I want to be as clean as possible for my lover and smell nice which also means I've flossed and brushed my teeth. Your comment sounds like you expect a guy (and you?) to then jump up out of bed and take anther shower right after sex?
I'd cut ties with any woman like that. You have some serious hang-ups, IMO. Good sex is messy. Deal with it. And yes, many times we don't shower before, or after sex where sex itself is the immediate priority. Wipe off with a towel if you aren't too tired to get up get one (I usually think ahead and have one in reach), then cuddle each other to sleep.
If my woman felt she needed to jump up out of bed to shower right after having sex every time, we wouldn't last long at all.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 22:16
Subject: Re:If your SO showered once a week.
no way
Anonymous
10/30/2017 20:14
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
I’m done here.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 17:50
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
If you love her you'll live with her natural flora and fauna.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 14:39
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Not being pedantic at all. People on this forum seem to use the terms interchangeably and the doctor certainly wasn't precise in what s/he was saying. In any event from the Mayo Clinic:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You (and apparently the doctor) need a lesson in basic anatomy. The labia and the vagina are not the same thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she should at least wash her lady bits and armpits daily - not very oily, so no excuse there
You're not supposed to use soap on your lady bits, ever!!
This is not true. You're not supposed to use soap inside your vagina, but you absolutely can use soap on your inner and outer labia.
Incorrect. Using soap on your mucus membranes causes sever stinging. Are you even a woman?
NP and yes a woman. Soap does not sting your inner and outer labia. That is so foul that you don’t use soap to clean yourself. Yuck
It absolutely does sting your inner labia. I found this out the hard way when I was three.
You got soap in your VAGINA, that was not your inner labia. Don't put soap into your vagina and you'll be fine.
Nope, my inner labia. Did you not read the response from the doctor above? “Do not use soap in/on your vagina. The skin is different there”.
Do not be pedantic, you know exactly what is being shed. How tiresome.
Wash your external genital area: During regular baths or showers, use a very small amount of mild, unscented soap and lots of water.
Avoid douching: All healthy vaginas contain bacteria and yeast. The normal acidity of your vagina keeps bacteria and yeast in check. But douching can actually upset this delicate balance.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 14:36
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had to cut ties with a guy because I found out that he didn't use a washcloth to clean himself and only showered at night. Meaning if we had sex at night(after he showered), he wouldn't shower again until the next evening. Hygiene is a big deal to me.
Why is a washcloth important? It's actually a breeding ground for bacteria. I use my hands to wash myself.
You wash your private area and butt with your hands?
Yes, I touch my genitals with my hands. I assume you do as well, unless you're entirely frigid.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 14:36
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You (and apparently the doctor) need a lesson in basic anatomy. The labia and the vagina are not the same thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she should at least wash her lady bits and armpits daily - not very oily, so no excuse there
You're not supposed to use soap on your lady bits, ever!!
This is not true. You're not supposed to use soap inside your vagina, but you absolutely can use soap on your inner and outer labia.
Incorrect. Using soap on your mucus membranes causes sever stinging. Are you even a woman?
NP and yes a woman. Soap does not sting your inner and outer labia. That is so foul that you don’t use soap to clean yourself. Yuck
It absolutely does sting your inner labia. I found this out the hard way when I was three.
You got soap in your VAGINA, that was not your inner labia. Don't put soap into your vagina and you'll be fine.
I only do soap on the outside of the clam. Not my inner labia or anything pink. No one wants soap in their urethra.
Nope, my inner labia. Did you not read the response from the doctor above? “Do not use soap in/on your vagina. The skin is different there”.
Do not be pedantic, you know exactly what is being shed. How tiresome.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 14:32
Subject: Re:If your SO showered once a week.
“I actually strongly prefer that my patients use no loofah, washcloth or scrubby at all in the shower,” says Krant. “Skincare should be gentle rather than harsh, and people spend a lot of time over-cleaning and stripping the skin of natural and healthy moisturizing oils that keep us from being itchy, dry and flaky,” she says. Using disposable sponge pads or some ordinary over-the-counter body wash and your hand is enough to keep you clean."
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/29/loofah-clean-healthy_n_5613734.html
https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/07/29/loofah-clean-healthy_n_5613734.html
Anonymous
10/30/2017 14:11
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had to cut ties with a guy because I found out that he didn't use a washcloth to clean himself and only showered at night. Meaning if we had sex at night(after he showered), he wouldn't shower again until the next evening. Hygiene is a big deal to me.
Why is a washcloth important? It's actually a breeding ground for bacteria. I use my hands to wash myself.
You wash your private area and butt with your hands?
Anonymous
10/30/2017 13:11
Subject: Re:If your SO showered once a week.
So your girlfriend may not shower FOR DAYS after exercising or having sex? Beyond gross.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 12:48
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Anonymous wrote:You (and apparently the doctor) need a lesson in basic anatomy. The labia and the vagina are not the same thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she should at least wash her lady bits and armpits daily - not very oily, so no excuse there
You're not supposed to use soap on your lady bits, ever!!
This is not true. You're not supposed to use soap inside your vagina, but you absolutely can use soap on your inner and outer labia.
Incorrect. Using soap on your mucus membranes causes sever stinging. Are you even a woman?
NP and yes a woman. Soap does not sting your inner and outer labia. That is so foul that you don’t use soap to clean yourself. Yuck
It absolutely does sting your inner labia. I found this out the hard way when I was three.
You got soap in your VAGINA, that was not your inner labia. Don't put soap into your vagina and you'll be fine.
Nope, my inner labia. Did you not read the response from the doctor above? “Do not use soap in/on your vagina. The skin is different there”.
Do not be pedantic, you know exactly what is being shed. How tiresome.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 12:40
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
You (and apparently the doctor) need a lesson in basic anatomy. The labia and the vagina are not the same thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she should at least wash her lady bits and armpits daily - not very oily, so no excuse there
You're not supposed to use soap on your lady bits, ever!!
This is not true. You're not supposed to use soap inside your vagina, but you absolutely can use soap on your inner and outer labia.
Incorrect. Using soap on your mucus membranes causes sever stinging. Are you even a woman?
NP and yes a woman. Soap does not sting your inner and outer labia. That is so foul that you don’t use soap to clean yourself. Yuck
It absolutely does sting your inner labia. I found this out the hard way when I was three.
You got soap in your VAGINA, that was not your inner labia. Don't put soap into your vagina and you'll be fine.
Nope, my inner labia. Did you not read the response from the doctor above? “Do not use soap in/on your vagina. The skin is different there”.
Anonymous
10/30/2017 12:38
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Well if you are a doctor you should know that the labia and the vagina are not the same thing.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she should at least wash her lady bits and armpits daily - not very oily, so no excuse there
You're not supposed to use soap on your lady bits, ever!!
This is not true. You're not supposed to use soap inside your vagina, but you absolutely can use soap on your inner and outer labia.
Incorrect. Using soap on your mucus membranes causes sever stinging. Are you even a woman?
NP and yes a woman. Soap does not sting your inner and outer labia. That is so foul that you don’t use soap to clean yourself. Yuck
It absolutely does sting your inner labia. I found this out the hard way when I was three.
Doctor here: do not use soap in/on your vagina!! That's how you get infections. Soap the surrounding areas. Thaat skin is different/sensitive; rinsing with water is more than sufficient
Anonymous
10/30/2017 12:37
Subject: If your SO showered once a week.
Now you are trying to tell other women what does or does not sting their labia?Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she should at least wash her lady bits and armpits daily - not very oily, so no excuse there
You're not supposed to use soap on your lady bits, ever!!
This is not true. You're not supposed to use soap inside your vagina, but you absolutely can use soap on your inner and outer labia.
Incorrect. Using soap on your mucus membranes causes sever stinging. Are you even a woman?
NP and yes a woman. Soap does not sting your inner and outer labia. That is so foul that you don’t use soap to clean yourself. Yuck
It absolutely does sting your inner labia. I found this out the hard way when I was three.
Sounds to me like you used harsh soap when you were three and don't really know what you are talking about now that you are an adult because you never tried soap again. Seriously, you aren't getting clean if you aren't washing your outer lady bits.