Anonymous wrote:I'm most positive that children are for sale, yes. But you have to decide if you are OK woth the idea that you are not saving a child, you are purchasing a child.

You are wrong to characterize must adoption this way.

Many adopted children have experienced trauma. BEFORE the adoptive parent arrived on the scene. Their birth parent died it they were all hungry it the parent was an addict/abusive.

When systems work , a non-corrupt government, who is putting the child’s interest first , identifies their need for a nurturing family (because the one they were born into cannot provide what they need). Under these circumstances, an adoptive family who has been thoroughly vetted by objective professionals can give that child what every child deserves: love, safety and security.

I am against private adoption because I think it is prone to some of the unethical practices mentioned above.

Hopefully you know enough about Bangladesh to know that you'd only be able to adopt if someone was paid or it's a child from incest. Regardless, it wouldn't be a great situation and probably not above board.

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Anonymous wrote:Children are not collectibles.

Tell us more about why you made this comment on this thread. Back up your statement.

Yes I’m interested too as to why you feel the need to write this rather than “children are not disposables”…