Anonymous wrote:About $20,000
Too much in retrospect.
Would rather have put it toward investments or a house.
Agree. Wish we had held BBQ reception at his parent's house and saved the money on food/venue/bar. It was a nice wedding but 11 years out I couldn't give two shits less. Never look at my pictures, whatever. It was a day. We're still together, slogging through life as two working parents with two kids. That's all that matters.