Men have needs. I need to be taken care of at least once a week. As long as DW and I have our own room we'll do it to it. The rest can do whatever they want in other parts of the suite or in another room. Leave us alone.

Wtg OP.

OP, just go the two without sex then when you get back home, have sex everyday to makeup for it.

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I never have vacation sex if kids are on vacation with us. Her desire is low to begin with and zero when kids are around.

I assume this is totally normal for women

Why does her low desire stop you from having sex on vacation?
Just go for it, and she will come around.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife and I never have vacation sex if kids are on vacation with us. Her desire is low to begin with and zero when kids are around.

I assume this is totally normal for women

Nope. Wife here. I go on vacation, in part, to have sex more. Whenever I am planning our vacations, having sex is *always* a priority in determining where we are going to stay.

This. I won't rent an airbnb without knowing my wife and I have our own locking room and bathroom.

So far, its only not worked out once on a ski vacation and it was a week of torture. Plus my wife had strained her back and I was having to massage her lower back every couple of hours while she did yoga cat/cows in her worn leggings. A number times her butt would be bouncing off of me and she'd be groaning from the massage. Longest week ever. NEVER AGAIN. NEVER.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op here - the house cleared out yesterday except for us and I was as ready as he was. We had a ton of fun and this morning he asked if we could have a repeat performance tonight. I said hold on as it takes grandma a day or two to recover.

The solution to this predicament as well as your original predicament is still, BJ.

OP here - LOL! That was included last night and I don't want to spoil him.

Anonymous wrote:Im impressed OP. Curious about your age and if your drive was always steady through out marriaege? we are about once every two weeks, both have low drive now and this is our new normal. Always amazed to hear stories like this.

I'm 65 and DH is 66. I've never been high drive (DH might be!) but, speaking for myself, I've always loved the physical intimacy and that I still have the "goods" to excite my DH. This may sound crazy but "hotel sex" has always been a turn on for me. It's very easy for sex to become "vanilla" and lead to a low drive. We try to mix things up and that always helps. Give it a try!

Anonymous wrote:Op here - the house cleared out yesterday except for us and I was as ready as he was. We had a ton of fun and this morning he asked if we could have a repeat performance tonight. I said hold on as it takes grandma a day or two to recover.

The solution to this predicament as well as your original predicament is still, BJ.

Anonymous wrote:Op here - the house cleared out yesterday except for us and I was as ready as he was. We had a ton of fun and this morning he asked if we could have a repeat performance tonight. I said hold on as it takes grandma a day or two to recover.

Aww! Congrats OP! I love that you still connect and make time for each other to bond in that way.