If she's a good person and you love her, who cares how many times she's been divorced? I've been divorced twice (walked out of two bad marriages, and had no regrets about doing so), I have been with my husband now for almost 8 years, married for almost 7. We've known each other for 11. He's a wonderful husband, a wonderful stepdad, and we mesh like we were made for each other. I don't give a damn what other people think and never have. He had never married, because he was waiting for the right one for him. He found her. You'll find that on this forum, so many of these women are so afraid of being different from anyone else that they couldn't possibly give good advice, because they are so close-minded that they can only see black and white. Life is like a prism. Take risks, take a gamble now and then. Maybe she's a gem in a world full of gravel.

Anonymous wrote:F$&@ all of you mysogynistic dimwits. I hope these women you are using to get off wise up and uncouple with you jerks.

Stop trying to make "uncouple" happen, Gwyneth.

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Anonymous wrote:Know a woman who got married within a year to a guy who had been married twice and was fifteen years older than her. Still together 10 years on.

cool story bro

True story actually. Why is that so hard to believe?

I have a friend about to marry for 3rd time. 2nd marriage lasted 9 months. THAT is a red flag!

While it would not personally thrill me, it wouldn't be a true deal breaker if I really cared for the person.

Divorce does not necessarily equate used goods or emotional baggage.

Anonymous wrote:Know a woman who got married within a year to a guy who had been married twice and was fifteen years older than her. Still together 10 years on.

cool story bro

Anonymous wrote:F$&@ all of you mysogynistic dimwits. I hope these women you are using to get off wise up and uncouple with you jerks.

They won't. Poor judgement, remember?

F$&@ all of you mysogynistic dimwits. I hope these women you are using to get off wise up and uncouple with you jerks.

Yes, it's a red flag. 1st red flag is when a divorcee makes an excuse for getting married and divorced in his/her 20s ("married too young"). These folks act like they were child brides, not adults. Don't give her the impression it's serious. Cut her lose, don't be Her third divorce.

Anonymous wrote:One is a red flag, two is no.

+1 Date, act interested if you think you can get some.

Anonymous wrote:I will take the other side, my ex husband has been married four times. Wife 1-3 (I was #2) just didn't work out for very specific reasons and now he is happy with #4. They have been very happy together, and good for them. So it's not always a terrible.

What do all these women see in him?