Anonymous
03/14/2017 13:41
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?
I'm thinking he is buying her nice things and/or paying bills. That's how I fell in bed with my now DH.
PP here. Nope. I buy her nothing. It started because I made her laugh. I continue to make her laugh.
Sure
Anonymous
03/14/2017 13:12
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
Rock on with your bad self. I am a 50+ married woman and I had to get an AP too. My H admits his drive is low and even though I tell him I am constantly horny, he thinks self care is sufficient. F that noise.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 12:46
Subject: Re:Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hope this isn't explicit. I fantasize about being a captive sex slave. Except, so does DH! He wants me to be dominant but I want him to be the dominant one.
How have you resolved this dilemma?
After reading your reply, I decided to be dominant the other night. He loved it. So much so that he's been acting like a puppy following me around the house and being overly affectionate in public. It's a tad embarrassing. I'm not a manipulative type of person but he would do anything I asked him to do right now.
He'd like it even better if I dominated you while he had to watch.
Sorry but sex with anonymous people you meet on the internet is not part of the fantasy. Unless you look like Channing Tatum in Magic Mike and can do the pony dance just as well.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 12:22
Subject: Re:Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:I'm pregnant and my husband won't do me. It's been over six months. He loses his erection if we try and have sex. I don't think he's ever been that sexually attracted to me anyway. Prepregnancy it was around once a week on a good week. But we have a great life together so maybe I'm okay with it? I'm going to give it another shot after I heal from childbirth and if it doesn't work ask for an open marriage.
Best we've ever had is when she was pregnant! Maybe you should join this adventurous, professional, early 30s couple.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 12:14
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?
Who cares. Tight 21 year old body. Nice
A 21 yo needs to get out and find a suitable partner and a 50+ sex-starved married guy is not that
Anonymous
03/14/2017 12:12
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?
Who cares. Tight 21 year old body. Nice
Anonymous
03/14/2017 12:02
Subject: Re:Confrssion thread
I use the same cutting board- for EVERYTHING! Chicken, vegetables- you name it! I have been doing it forever and have never gotten sick.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:53
Subject: Re:Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hope this isn't explicit. I fantasize about being a captive sex slave. Except, so does DH! He wants me to be dominant but I want him to be the dominant one.
How have you resolved this dilemma?
After reading your reply, I decided to be dominant the other night. He loved it. So much so that he's been acting like a puppy following me around the house and being overly affectionate in public. It's a tad embarrassing. I'm not a manipulative type of person but he would do anything I asked him to do right now.
He'd like it even better if I dominated you while he had to watch.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:45
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?
I'm thinking he is buying her nice things and/or paying bills. That's how I fell in bed with my now DH.
PP here. Nope. I buy her nothing. It started because I made her laugh. I continue to make her laugh.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:33
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?
I'm thinking he is buying her nice things and/or paying bills. That's how I fell in bed with my now DH.
Same. Bought me nice things, gave me cash, and paid my bills. 15 yr age difference. I find older men attractive anyway
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:32
Subject: Re:Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hope this isn't explicit. I fantasize about being a captive sex slave. Except, so does DH! He wants me to be dominant but I want him to be the dominant one.
How have you resolved this dilemma?
After reading your reply, I decided to be dominant the other night. He loved it. So much so that he's been acting like a puppy following me around the house and being overly affectionate in public. It's a tad embarrassing. I'm not a manipulative type of person but he would do anything I asked him to do right now.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:10
Subject: Re:Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have been suicidal over DW's affair but can't imagine burdening my kids with that. So I live in agony and I know this is taking 10+ years off my life
You should divorce if its causing you this much angst and start anew. Your kids are better off with a living, functional dad. And definitely seek therapy.
He probably won't see his kids that often that way. Perhaps that bothers him more.
Nowadays its pretty easy to get joint custody. It's the default. This isn't 1970.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:10
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?
I'm thinking he is buying her nice things and/or paying bills. That's how I fell in bed with my now DH.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:03
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I'm a 50+ divorced m. I have sex all the time with more age appropriate women and it's so much better than the women who are appropriate to the PP. FTR I prefer playing in my own sandbox because I have a 21 year old daughter who happens to be a barista and thinks its gross to flirt with men her fathers age.
Anonymous
03/14/2017 11:00
Subject: Confrssion thread
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Why is she sleeping with you? Are you really good in bed? Or rich?