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Anonymous wrote:threesome. it solves all issues.

You never know. Kasey could be OP's soulmate.

Op: LOL she would be less interested if he was available.

No, I meant *your* soulmate. Get my attempts at threadshitting correct!

This whole thing is out of a Jerry Springer show. For real? Um, you don't say anything, and pretend you are okay with. "We are so sorry to miss Thanksgiving but just won a free vacay to the beach". Do not enter that family drama.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:threesome. it solves all issues.

You never know. Kasey could be OP's soulmate.

Op: LOL she would be less interested if he was available.

Anonymous wrote:threesome. it solves all issues.

You never know. Kasey could be OP's soulmate.

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP it seems to me your DH cheated on you with this woman and her son is your husbands. .

No the other guy denied the kid at first. There was a DNA test. Small town. I trust my husband.

Wow, that's nuts but great that you have a DNA test.

A DNA test only proves the ex's husband is the father. It doesn't prove OP's DH wasn't banging his ex.

Husbands don't ask for paternity tests unless they have a reason to doubt paternity.

Read! OP's husband did not ask for a paternity test, the child's father did. OP's husband was never accused (until today) of being the child's father.

I think what pp is saying is that the father of the child was suspicious she was sleeping around (perhaps with OP's husband) and therefore asked for a paternity test.

The child's father wanted a paternity test because Ex was just a one night stand and she was also sleeping with a married man. Just not my married man.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP it seems to me your DH cheated on you with this woman and her son is your husbands. .

No the other guy denied the kid at first. There was a DNA test. Small town. I trust my husband.

Wow, that's nuts but great that you have a DNA test.

A DNA test only proves the ex's husband is the father. It doesn't prove OP's DH wasn't banging his ex.

Husbands don't ask for paternity tests unless they have a reason to doubt paternity.

Read! OP's husband did not ask for a paternity test, the child's father did. OP's husband was never accused (until today) of being the child's father.

I think what pp is saying is that the father of the child was suspicious she was sleeping around (perhaps with OP's husband) and therefore asked for a paternity test.

threesome. it solves all issues.

Having a small family thanksgiving can be a real treat. My IL's are good people but every few years is nice to have a break and just do our own thing. Have a great holiday.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP it seems to me your DH cheated on you with this woman and her son is your husbands. .

No the other guy denied the kid at first. There was a DNA test. Small town. I trust my husband.

Wow, that's nuts but great that you have a DNA test.

A DNA test only proves the ex's husband is the father. It doesn't prove OP's DH wasn't banging his ex.

Husbands don't ask for paternity tests unless they have a reason to doubt paternity.

Read! OP's husband did not ask for a paternity test, the child's father did. OP's husband was never accused (until today) of being the child's father.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP it seems to me your DH cheated on you with this woman and her son is your husbands. .

No the other guy denied the kid at first. There was a DNA test. Small town. I trust my husband.

Wow, that's nuts but great that you have a DNA test.

A DNA test only proves the ex's husband is the father. It doesn't prove OP's DH wasn't banging his ex.

Husbands don't ask for paternity tests unless they have a reason to doubt paternity.

Wow.

I may have gone and said something to the effect of "Oh hi!! Haven't heard from you since DH changed his number. Are you still sending nude pictures to ex boyfriends? It is just SO understanding of my IL's to still invite you to dinner."

Also there is no way in hell my kid would be calling her "Aunt" and everyone would know that, too.

So look at the bright side! You can now start your own Thanksgiving tradition! At ours, we serve Oreo pie instead of pumpkin pie. Cranberries are nowhere in the house!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly OP it seems to me your DH cheated on you with this woman and her son is your husbands. .

No the other guy denied the kid at first. There was a DNA test. Small town. I trust my husband.

Wow, that's nuts but great that you have a DNA test.