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Anonymous wrote:How come you couldn't get it together enough to get married before you had your baby?

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No. Smart comment.

Don't tell me you are still falling for the modern family B.S that it's so chic to have a kid or two before getting engaged.

I doubt they are engaged. More like "yea of course I'm thinking about marriage honey".

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Anonymous wrote:How come you couldn't get it together enough to get married before you had your baby?

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No. Smart comment.

Don't tell me you are still falling for the modern family B.S that it's so chic to have a kid or two before getting engaged.

Get one of those baby trailers for his bike, pump a lot, and pack him off with the baby and supplies. That should be fun for him and his "ex." You get some sleep while they're away.

Anonymous wrote:How come you couldn't get it together enough to get married before you had your baby?

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Tuna lady, is that you?

Obviously:
OP isn't REALLY engaged. They have no solid plans to marry, but it sounds better than saying we had a baby together shortly after starting to date.
The "fiance"/really just a BF is the ex's baby daddy.
He needs a break for OP and the 2 mos old.
His mom is delighted to spend time with her 6 mos. old GC whose mother she's always liked better than OP anyway.
They say they are going biking, but really they are eloping.

Ex is gonna break the news on the bike trip. baby daddy YO!

this has spiraled into a horrible train wreck ... this is fake or Jerry Springer type shit.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. He has assured me baby is not his.

I'm sure he has. Don't be an idiot. She is leaving her baby to go after your fiance.

I still want to know who is watching the ex girlfriend's no daddy baby while she bikes around?

. She asked my fiancé's mother!

Is this a joke??? So she asked grandma? How sweet. Seriously though, for real?

Why wouldn't she ask grandma to babysit?

How old is grandma anyway if she has a 40 something divorced son? I call troll from this, and among other things. This entire scenario is so packed out stupid and how can anyone be even more stupid to believe all these facts.

60 something.
Why is it so hard to believe a 60 something year old would care for a kid?
It's actually pretty common.

Oh, hell no. Tell his ex to bike with her imaginary friends.

The last comment is so odd. The average age of a first time mom in 2010 was 26. It was even younger in previous generations.

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. He has assured me baby is not his.

I'm sure he has. Don't be an idiot. She is leaving her baby to go after your fiance.

I still want to know who is watching the ex girlfriend's no daddy baby while she bikes around?

. She asked my fiancé's mother!

Is this a joke??? So she asked grandma? How sweet. Seriously though, for real?

Why wouldn't she ask grandma to babysit?

How old is grandma anyway if she has a 40 something divorced son? I call troll from this, and among other things. This entire scenario is so packed out stupid and how can anyone be even more stupid to believe all these facts.

How come you couldn't get it together enough to get married before you had your baby?

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Anonymous wrote:Op here. I did get pregnant rather quickly after we met. The pregnancy was not planned. We are both divorced and are older -in our 40s and have kids of our own.

I thought you were going to say you are in your 20s. Come on, a 40 something divorcee should not be so naive!

Op sounds like my sister. She is 49 y o but behaves like a 21 y o

No.

The ex should know that asking such a thing is a big no-no.