OP lady here in similar situation. 3 kids, 5'1", 98 lbs, barely an A cup, nipples big and dark.
I love my body. I used to feel self conscious about my boobs before I had kids,
but now I'm more proud of my body now that I've been through all the weight gain and loss and breastfeeding. I could see getting implants one day if things aren't going good with my marriage or body image. But right now,
my husband's into me the way I am, I'm into me the way I am, sex is good,
clothes look better on me than most women my age, and surgery is an unnecessary risk. that's my thinking for now,
for whatever it helps.

Anonymous wrote:Marathon runner here- manage 3:25's with my "melons". Has 325 cc's under the muscle implanted to tiny a cups- look completely natural on my strong but skinny frame. You know nothing.

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Yeah and how far apart are they? I hate having big boobs (natural 34DDD) but I'd rather have no boobs than implants from an A. It always looks like the Grand Canyon between two small fake boobs. And I'm not hating because I'd love to have naturally small breasts! I think the implants only look good when someone had boobs to begin with (B or C) then went up in size. Otherwise they look like two baseballs on a board.

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Anonymous wrote:If anyone is reading who has not had a child, don't believe all the panic about breastfeeding changing your breasts. I nursed for a total of almost 5 years and they still look the same. I have friends and family members in the same situation. I don't even understand biologically what people are saying is happening to the breast tissue.

Because all women are different. I am not the OP, but my nipples have gotten larger and darker after BF. They were barely an A cup prior to having kids, but now that I have gained some weight ( I was super skinny pre kids), my boobs fill out an A cup (maybe B?), but the nipples are definitely darker and larger. If I hadn't gained some weight, my boobs would probably be like a tangerine in a sock. I would love to lose 5lbs, but that 5lbs would probably go straight from my boobs only.

And as for the dark and larger nipples, major turn on for guys. I only wish my wife had them!

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Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a man turning down a woman for sex because her breasts are not his favorite kind. LOL.
Fwiw my DH always preferred natural breasts. Until I got implants. He now prefers fakes. If I got a third implant in the middle he would probably prefer the triple breasted look...
Honestly I think guys just want sex.

Who woulda thought ...

lol.. yea, I don't think your DH or any for that matter would reject sex just because a woman has fake boobs. But, some men do prefer natural ones to fake ones, that's all. It's just a preference. Just like some men prefer blondes to brunettes but wouldn't turn down having sex with a brunette.

Men like all types A would be great for me. I would not want my wife to go through this because of the risks involved.

Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of a man turning down a woman for sex because her breasts are not his favorite kind. LOL.
Fwiw my DH always preferred natural breasts. Until I got implants. He now prefers fakes. If I got a third implant in the middle he would probably prefer the triple breasted look...
Honestly I think guys just want sex.

Who woulda thought ...

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Anonymous wrote:I've always told my wife I was against it. We have three daughters who are going to be petite and flat chested and I think girls have enough self esteem issues without dealing with why their mom has a bigger chest than they do.

It's ok, really. I'm very petite and my mom is not (naturally). Genetics are weird. Sometimes I wonder why I didn't get that particular feature (sister did!) but I don't dwell on it.

While this is true about genetics (my mom is busty and chunky, and I am stick thin and flat chested), but I think it's the overall message to your daughters more than anything else.

Anonymous wrote:I've always told my wife I was against it. We have three daughters who are going to be petite and flat chested and I think girls have enough self esteem issues without dealing with why their mom has a bigger chest than they do.

It's ok, really. I'm very petite and my mom is not (naturally). Genetics are weird. Sometimes I wonder why I didn't get that particular feature (sister did!) but I don't dwell on it.

I've always told my wife I was against it. We have three daughters who are going to be petite and flat chested and I think girls have enough self esteem issues without dealing with why their mom has a bigger chest than they do.

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Anonymous wrote:This is the OP. Thanks for all the replies. Thing is, I was always happy with my body until they went through pregnancy and nursing (my son had to be forcibly weaned at 18 months).

So sorry if this is too much information but there's no real sag as they were small to begin with, but my nipples are HUGE and are larger than pencil erasers. I think it is the proportion and moving up a cup or two would make things aesthetically pleasing undresses and dressed.

Consensus: If it would make you happy, and you can afford it, and you've at least considered your husband's views, and you are aware of the risks, go for it, but don't over-do it. WE HAVE SPOKEN.

New poster who hasn't read all of these responses. Go for it! Quite a few of my friends have done this (we're in our forties), and they all look wonderful and they're happy with the results. I would hardly have noticed that they had something done. Good luck!

What is a ballpark cost?

Anonymous wrote:If anyone is reading who has not had a child, don't believe all the panic about breastfeeding changing your breasts. I nursed for a total of almost 5 years and they still look the same. I have friends and family members in the same situation. I don't even understand biologically what people are saying is happening to the breast tissue.

Because all women are different. I am not the OP, but my nipples have gotten larger and darker after BF. They were barely an A cup prior to having kids, but now that I have gained some weight ( I was super skinny pre kids), my boobs fill out an A cup (maybe B?), but the nipples are definitely darker and larger. If I hadn't gained some weight, my boobs would probably be like a tangerine in a sock. I would love to lose 5lbs, but that 5lbs would probably go straight from my boobs only.

If anyone is reading who has not had a child, don't believe all the panic about breastfeeding changing your breasts. I nursed for a total of almost 5 years and they still look the same. I have friends and family members in the same situation. I don't even understand biologically what people are saying is happening to the breast tissue.

Anonymous wrote:This is the OP. Thanks for all the replies. Thing is, I was always happy with my body until they went through pregnancy and nursing (my son had to be forcibly weaned at 18 months).

So sorry if this is too much information but there's no real sag as they were small to begin with, but my nipples are HUGE and are larger than pencil erasers. I think it is the proportion and moving up a cup or two would make things aesthetically pleasing undresses and dressed.

Consensus: If it would make you happy, and you can afford it, and you've at least considered your husband's views, and you are aware of the risks, go for it, but don't over-do it. WE HAVE SPOKEN.

This is the OP. Thanks for all the replies. Thing is, I was always happy with my body until they went through pregnancy and nursing (my son had to be forcibly weaned at 18 months).

So sorry if this is too much information but there's no real sag as they were small to begin with, but my nipples are HUGE and are larger than pencil erasers. I think it is the proportion and moving up a cup or two would make things aesthetically pleasing undresses and dressed.