Well I was a stripper until about age 33. I bought a house in a "good zip code" in a close-in suburb about 5 years before I retired from that business. I hang out with LOTS of people who have no idea about my past. It's not always so obvious I guess.
That said, I really do hope OP is not my neighbor because SHE sounds like some of the trashier girls I used to work with- that is, a loose cannon ready to get into a fistfight. OP are you sure you don't want to run into The Whore??! Maybe you need to duke it out like at a block party or in the parking lot at the Giant or something. Do it! You will feel better and also it will be excellent entertainment for all of the neighbors.
Maybe some of the guys will throw money at you