Anonymous wrote:OP you're a kind person and your cousin is lucky to have you. Sort of off topic but about her struggle with skin problems, I've totally been there and it affected my life for way too long. Accurate may be life-changing for her so if that works, great. I finally had success with Smoothbeam laser treatments (I think they may also be called fraxel or v-beam treatments). Hurt like a mothereffer but it was the only thing that permanently cleared my skin and changed my self esteem. Good luck and thanks for being such a great support system for your family.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm the OP. Thanks for the replies. Is it normal for the supervisor to refuse to tell her why she was fired?
If you tell them why, then that opens it up for debate and lawsuits.
How long had she been there? In many states, even a "protected class" can be fired in the first X months for no reason at all.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP again. Thanks for all the replies. I think I will fly her out to stay with me for a while to calm down.
She is really upset about the "face doesn't fit" comment because she suffers from severe acne (just started Accutane recently), and is very self-conscious about it. She seems to think that they fired her literally because of her face. She once overheard the two women who were unkind to her talking about her skin, and now she's convinced that she was fired because she is "too ugly" and "no one wants to look at a face like mine." It is probably good that I am in a different country because I would like to go find her supervisor and slap him. The poor kid. I wish they had just told her a reason, or at least not said anything about a "face" at all.
I find that comment to be deeply, deeply disturbing and potentially discriminatory[b]. Consult an employment lawyer. Not sure what the effect of whatever it is that she signed would be, though. Lawyer up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You people are unbelievable. The agreement she signed wasn't just a confidentiality or non disparagement agreement, I'll bet all the money in my wallet it was also a release. Why? Because no employer pays 2 months severance on a tenure of 2 years without getting a release. So all this talk of "this is deeply disturbing" and bickering over whether this is discriminatory in the UK just doesn't matter. Consult a lawyer if you want, to be sure, but she's going to tell you that any claims have been released. Game over.
Well, yes, I think that is the point we are all making, that she should *not* have signed the agreement without understanding what it was and clarifying why she was being fired.
I'm sorry, but if someone fired me and could only give me the weird reason her boss gave her and I had excellent performance evaluations for two years, I would be wary of signing any agreement without trying to get a better understanding of WTH was going on.
I think that is what OP's niece should learn.
The PP who said they'd only give dates of employment as a reference, we don't know that because we don't know what OP's niece signed.
I assume the niece in question has a dad or a mom to help in cases like this? Sounds quite random that an uncle in a different country is trying to handle this via DCUM.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I handle a lot of employment law and do not see a case here. It sounds like your niece wasn't a good fit, which is a perfectly acceptable reason to terminate someone.
Based just on a brief description of the event in the OP's post? I'd never hire you as my lawyer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You people are unbelievable. The agreement she signed wasn't just a confidentiality or non disparagement agreement, I'll bet all the money in my wallet it was also a release. Why? Because no employer pays 2 months severance on a tenure of 2 years without getting a release. So all this talk of "this is deeply disturbing" and bickering over whether this is discriminatory in the UK just doesn't matter. Consult a lawyer if you want, to be sure, but she's going to tell you that any claims have been released. Game over.
Well, yes, I think that is the point we are all making, that she should *not* have signed the agreement without understanding what it was and clarifying why she was being fired.
I'm sorry, but if someone fired me and could only give me the weird reason her boss gave her and I had excellent performance evaluations for two years, I would be wary of signing any agreement without trying to get a better understanding of WTH was going on.
I think that is what OP's niece should learn.
The PP who said they'd only give dates of employment as a reference, we don't know that because we don't know what OP's niece signed.
Anonymous wrote:You people are unbelievable. The agreement she signed wasn't just a confidentiality or non disparagement agreement, I'll bet all the money in my wallet it was also a release. Why? Because no employer pays 2 months severance on a tenure of 2 years without getting a release. So all this talk of "this is deeply disturbing" and bickering over whether this is discriminatory in the UK just doesn't matter. Consult a lawyer if you want, to be sure, but she's going to tell you that any claims have been released. Game over.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You people are unbelievable. The agreement she signed wasn't just a confidentiality or non disparagement agreement, I'll bet all the money in my wallet it was also a release. Why? Because no employer pays 2 months severance on a tenure of 2 years without getting a release. So all this talk of "this is deeply disturbing" and bickering over whether this is discriminatory in the UK just doesn't matter. Consult a lawyer if you want, to be sure, but she's going to tell you that any claims have been released. Game over.
you're right. The OP's post does say the document she signed said she would not take any legal action.
The release won't prevent her from suing. It will be evidence against her, and she will probably have to give back the severance money if they counter sue, but if she actually has a case it won't matter. Not saying she should, but it's not like signing a release bara you from filing a complaint.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You people are unbelievable. The agreement she signed wasn't just a confidentiality or non disparagement agreement, I'll bet all the money in my wallet it was also a release. Why? Because no employer pays 2 months severance on a tenure of 2 years without getting a release. So all this talk of "this is deeply disturbing" and bickering over whether this is discriminatory in the UK just doesn't matter. Consult a lawyer if you want, to be sure, but she's going to tell you that any claims have been released. Game over.
you're right. The OP's post does say the document she signed said she would not take any legal action.