Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It will literally take hours to shovel someone out. Hours. $80-100 is very reasonable. Professionals with snow blowers will work less and charge much more.
Exactly my point. Yes, if you live in Michigan in a poor area, I think it is reasonable to help neighbors in a neighborly way. But, I am sorry. My wealthy neighbor who drives a Mercedes is going to pay my kid if he spends five hours shoveling her out.
PP here. PS She is the one that asked the day before if he would do it. We have a snowblower. They have a housekeeper who cleans twice a week. They can pay my kid $100 easily.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the difference is that it is a state of emergency where I am, and not a typical occurrence to have snow so deep that power is going out, the grocery stores were running out of food, roads are not passable, etc so the right thing to do in an "out of the norm" and possible emergent situation is to help the elderly without expecting payment.
If it was typical lawn mowing, getting mail, or things that are frequent and expected I would agree that a discounted rate would be appropriate, but in the case of a freak snowstorm it feels a bit predatory and opportunistic,
and therefore inappropriate to have your 12 year old out hustling an 85 year old lady for money for a safety issue such as slip/falls and the necessity of being able to get out of the house safely or allows others in safely.
Just my two cents and I realize the OP was not specifically asking about this situation.
Fwiw we called all of our elderly/widowed neighbors when my DH and teenage son walked to the store last night to see if anyone needed anything, and wouldn't think of trying to make money off a grocery delivery service. We have called every day and made sure their walks are shoveled (granted they are not driveways).
I would be mortified if my sons asked for money rather than just cleaning them off for a nice surprise when they look out the windows
Your kids are outside shoveling out all of the elderly/widowed neighbors on your street, huh? What perchance are you doing today?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It will literally take hours to shovel someone out. Hours. $80-100 is very reasonable. Professionals with snow blowers will work less and charge much more.
Exactly my point. Yes, if you live in Michigan in a poor area, I think it is reasonable to help neighbors in a neighborly way. But, I am sorry. My wealthy neighbor who drives a Mercedes is going to pay my kid if he spends five hours shoveling her out.
Anonymous wrote:It will literally take hours to shovel someone out. Hours. $80-100 is very reasonable. Professionals with snow blowers will work less and charge much more.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I grew up in Michigan and my mother would have torn my ass up if I charged a neighbor to shovel their driveway...especially an elderly neighbor.
You people are raising a**holes.
We plan to charge our elderly wealthy neighbor. Thank you very much.
Anonymous wrote:I grew up in Michigan and my mother would have torn my ass up if I charged a neighbor to shovel their driveway...especially an elderly neighbor.
You people are raising a**holes.
Anonymous wrote:I think the difference is that it is a state of emergency where I am, and not a typical occurrence to have snow so deep that power is going out, the grocery stores were running out of food, roads are not passable, etc so the right thing to do in an "out of the norm" and possible emergent situation is to help the elderly without expecting payment.
If it was typical lawn mowing, getting mail, or things that are frequent and expected I would agree that a discounted rate would be appropriate, but in the case of a freak snowstorm it feels a bit predatory and opportunistic,
and therefore inappropriate to have your 12 year old out hustling an 85 year old lady for money for a safety issue such as slip/falls and the necessity of being able to get out of the house safely or allows others in safely.
Just my two cents and I realize the OP was not specifically asking about this situation.
Fwiw we called all of our elderly/widowed neighbors when my DH and teenage son walked to the store last night to see if anyone needed anything, and wouldn't think of trying to make money off a grocery delivery service. We have called every day and made sure their walks are shoveled (granted they are not driveways).
I would be mortified if my sons asked for money rather than just cleaning them off for a nice surprise when they look out the windows
Anonymous wrote:I think the difference is that it is a state of emergency where I am, and not a typical occurrence to have snow so deep that power is going out, the grocery stores were running out of food, roads are not passable, etc so the right thing to do in an "out of the norm" and possible emergent situation is to help the elderly without expecting payment.
If it was typical lawn mowing, getting mail, or things that are frequent and expected I would agree that a discounted rate would be appropriate, but in the case of a freak snowstorm it feels a bit predatory and opportunistic,
and therefore inappropriate to have your 12 year old out hustling an 85 year old lady for money for a safety issue such as slip/falls and the necessity of being able to get out of the house safely or allows others in safely.
Just my two cents and I realize the OP was not specifically asking about this situation.
Fwiw we called all of our elderly/widowed neighbors when my DH and teenage son walked to the store last night to see if anyone needed anything, and wouldn't think of trying to make money off a grocery delivery service. We have called every day and made sure their walks are shoveled (granted they are not driveways).
I would be mortified if my sons asked for money rather than just cleaning them off for a nice surprise when they look out the windows
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think the difference is that it is a state of emergency where I am, and not a typical occurrence to have snow so deep that power is going out, the grocery stores were running out of food, roads are not passable, etc so the right thing to do in an "out of the norm" and possible emergent situation is to help the elderly without expecting payment.
If it was typical lawn mowing, getting mail, or things that are frequent and expected I would agree that a discounted rate would be appropriate, but in the case of a freak snowstorm it feels a bit predatory and opportunistic,
and therefore inappropriate to have your 12 year old out hustling an 85 year old lady for money for a safety issue such as slip/falls and the necessity of being able to get out of the house safely or allows others in safely.
Just my two cents and I realize the OP was not specifically asking about this situation.
Fwiw we called all of our elderly/widowed neighbors when my DH and teenage son walked to the store last night to see if anyone needed anything, and wouldn't think of trying to make money off a grocery delivery service. We have called every day and made sure their walks are shoveled (granted they are not driveways).
I would be mortified if my sons asked for money rather than just cleaning them off for a nice surprise when they look out the windows
Elderly who can afford it taking advantage of a 12 year old? Entitled.