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Anonymous wrote:Feelings are never wrong. Of course you can be hurt. Do you have any idea why she feels this way, though? I'm going through something similar with my brother (I'm the one who doesn't want to spend the holidays with him and his girlfriend). The reason is they are extremely toxic and dysfunctional together. I'm not saying that's the case in your situation, but it's something I can and did clearly state to my brother. Have you talked it through a bit? I'd just see if there was something going on there. Maybe she doesn't like how your boyfriend treats you. Maybe someone in the group(s) made an unwanted pass at her. Could be minor. Could be serious. But I'd want to make sure the air was clear with my sibling.

My bf and I are crazy in love.His family is okay, kinda awkward but they have good intentions.

She just says that she doesn't want to be the third wheel. I tell her that it's not like she's accompanying us on a date. There's other people there.