Anonymous wrote:Steam room? I think the squat rack would be better.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:1703 here again. What I was doing was completely inappropriate. I think there's a difference between noticing + appreciating a beautiful woman, and leering at her. I was doing the latter. There's an animalistic, non-rational part of me that fantasizes about her -- which I think is normal -- but I shouldn't be going around staring at her, or other women I find attractive.
That is very mature and smart of you. I totally agree.
Anonymous wrote:1703 here again. What I was doing was completely inappropriate. I think there's a difference between noticing + appreciating a beautiful woman, and leering at her. I was doing the latter. There's an animalistic, non-rational part of me that fantasizes about her -- which I think is normal -- but I shouldn't be going around staring at her, or other women I find attractive.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:17:03 I can guarantee you you made her day/week. By the way you wrote your post,it is clear you are not a creepy gawker.
Um, not necessarily. I have dudes stare at me in the gym frequently and 99% of the time i HATE it. I have taken to listening to feminist podcasts as I workout and scowling, just to make sure I am giving off a "Do Not Approach" vibe, because it was getting annoying having my workouts interrupted by someone attempting to chat me up.
I feel like a lot of women feel the same way, particularly when they are doing the weights and it is just a cesspool of dudes around them.
What about 1%?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:17:03 I can guarantee you you made her day/week. By the way you wrote your post,it is clear you are not a creepy gawker.
Um, not necessarily. I have dudes stare at me in the gym frequently and 99% of the time i HATE it. I have taken to listening to feminist podcasts as I workout and scowling, just to make sure I am giving off a "Do Not Approach" vibe, because it was getting annoying having my workouts interrupted by someone attempting to chat me up.
I feel like a lot of women feel the same way, particularly when they are doing the weights and it is just a cesspool of dudes around them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:17:03 I can guarantee you you made her day/week. By the way you wrote your post,it is clear you are not a creepy gawker.
Um, not necessarily. I have dudes stare at me in the gym frequently and 99% of the time i HATE it. I have taken to listening to feminist podcasts as I workout and scowling, just to make sure I am giving off a "Do Not Approach" vibe, because it was getting annoying having my workouts interrupted by someone attempting to chat me up.
I feel like a lot of women feel the same way, particularly when they are doing the weights and it is just a cesspool of dudes around them.
You must be HOT!![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:17:03 I can guarantee you you made her day/week. By the way you wrote your post,it is clear you are not a creepy gawker.
Um, not necessarily. I have dudes stare at me in the gym frequently and 99% of the time i HATE it. I have taken to listening to feminist podcasts as I workout and scowling, just to make sure I am giving off a "Do Not Approach" vibe, because it was getting annoying having my workouts interrupted by someone attempting to chat me up.
I feel like a lot of women feel the same way, particularly when they are doing the weights and it is just a cesspool of dudes around them.
Anonymous wrote:17:03 I can guarantee you you made her day/week. By the way you wrote your post,it is clear you are not a creepy gawker.
Anonymous wrote:How interesting... OP (16:30) and her guy (17:03) finally meet on DCUM.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Well, I think I succeeded in sending a message. Gym Crush was not at the gym today at all. We both go religiously normally. I could tell he looked almost frustrated that I would avoid his eyes this week. On the one hand, I am relieved, but on the other bummed. Was a glimmer of excitement in an otherwise dull existence, but I know I should count my blessings and move on. Just thought I would provide you with an update since you have all been so responsive.