Anonymous wrote:
I am also 41 and had similar symptoms. However, they stimulate younger women differently, esp. for egg donations. They don't need the extreme dosages we do in order to respond. I am not saying it's impossible to get OHSS from egg donation, but it's very different from what you and I had to go through physically at 41. Additionally, use of Lupron eliminates the possibility of OHSS and it's used more on younger patients.
Anonymous wrote:I love how patronizing it is towards women who donate. Women are always portrayed as needing paternal guidance as to how they choose to use their bodies. If they got paid more, they would be less able to decide what risks they would like to take with their bodies? While I do not think they are paid enough compared to what the doctors are making, their eggs by themselves, with no medical intervention, actually have no value. They may have a potential value, but only if they choose to sell them or procreate with them. Wasted every month of their lives, no matter how elite they are.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What makes you think they need to pay more to get egg donors? They don't.
Yes they do. Shady Grove upped its offer from $5,000 to $7,000 last year (maybe even earlier) and agencies are offering premiums for egg donors of ethnicities from which donor eggs are hard to get.
In Europe where payment is lower and anonymity is not allowed, it is very hard to get donor eggs and donor sperm. Many, many Europeans travel for their treatment.
I am grateful that it was readily available here in the U.S., albeit expensive.
Without the cap, I think the costs will go up. Clinics will do what they can to keep it affordable enough to keep patients. I have no objection to the donors getting more of what I pay, and the clinic just having lower profits, but it could go the other way, where clinics insist on maintaining their level of profit and less people can afford donor egg.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have a PhD from HYP, blue eyes, division one athlete. You better believe my eggs - which are not a body part as they are shed every month - are worth more than other eggs. Same goes for any East Asian woman. There are very few Asian donors. Of the price were higher maybe more would donate. I, for one, would. I'm not donating for a paltry 5k. Not worth the medical risks at that price.
Your eggs are worth what people are willing to pay. If 5k is too little, then don't donate. You assume the ideal is blonde hair and blue eyes, which is a false assumption. I would pay more for the Harvard PhD, but the blonde hair is nothing g
The blonde hair is actually problematic.
Where does she say she is blonde?