Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 14:55     Subject: Deal breakers?
I'm a female with a roommate. What's so bad about it? This area has a high COL. However, I'm pretty much over sharing a space, so I'm in my last year of having a roommate.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 14:45     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Nickleback fan
Loves John Irving novels
Has a personal email address that references a sports team
All exes are all psycho or mean
Smoker
Uses the phrase "no drama"
Has no friends


+1!
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 14:17     Subject: Deal breakers?
Racist
Sexist
Smoker
Uses illegal drugs or drinks excessively
Drives under the influence
Talks badly about every ex; all exes are "crazy"
Likes the novels of Ayn Rand
Treats waitstaff (or anyone "beneath him") badly
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 14:09     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling


Something tells me your sense of humor isn't all that developed either, or perhaps leans towards Gallagher.

What do you have against a guy with a roommate?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 14:03     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling


Why don't you just mention a minimum salary and save the BS. Do you have roommates?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 10:06     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Female here
-Religious
-No sense of humor
-No ambition
-Socially awkward
-Roommates
-Poor hygiene
-5’10 or under
-Someone who hates cuddling
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 09:50     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Loud snoring
I can't sleep when someone snores close to me and I would like to sleep in the same bed with my husband.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 09:37     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:I am male, and in my early 50's...

Here are my deal breakers:

-- Smoker
-- Drugs
-- uneducated (at least a Bachelors)
-- Anti science (climate change, vaccines, evolution)
-- Strong belief in god.
-- Racist/Sexist/Homophobic/anti-Semitic (I am nominally jewish)
-- Supports any of the extreme right politicians (Trump, Palin, etc)
-- No Job
-- Can not weigh more than me, unless taller than me
-- Does not want to travel
-- Does not understand physical limits of others

--


Woman here, this is pretty reasonable, except for the last one - what does that mean?
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 08:32     Subject: Re:Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Bad grammar
Doesn't use a coaster for a glass...or doesn't ask for one
Likes NASCAR
Unruly eyebrows
Wears socks with sandals
Has a head that's smaller than mine


LOL. Do you carry a tape measure on your dates?

The coaster thing? Jesus some of you people are weird.
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 06:30     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Mine are:

~ Past criminal record, esp. involving violence. One thing may be acceptable, but a pattern of crime is a huge "no-no" for me.

~ Homeless, carless and jobless. My last boyfriend was ALL of these and it sucked so bad. I was the one who drove us everywhere, I paid for everything and we always had to stay at my house where he of course, ate my food and used my shower. And since he was jobless, he didn't even have a pot to piss in.

~ Into drugs, even marijuana. Also, no addictions to alcohol, gambling or pornography. No exceptions.

~ Someone who lies. Even "white" lies. Or small lies. A lie is a lie in my book and if someone does not place value on integrity, I will place no value on the person. Plain and simple.

~ Someone who gawks at every hot girl in public. Who needs that....??!

~ Someone who has little empathy toward others. Not cool.



Carless to me may be a sign that they do not need a car in there life. I had a coworker who did not have a car. He lived close to work and everything he needed. He had an appt...had a job, and if he needed a car, would rent one/zipcar. He was one of the smartest young people I had ever work with...and he saved my life while we were on an overseas business trip...

Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 01:02     Subject: Deal breakers?
Anonymous wrote:Mine are:

~ Past criminal record, esp. involving violence. One thing may be acceptable, but a pattern of crime is a huge "no-no" for me.

~ Homeless, carless and jobless. My last boyfriend was ALL of these and it sucked so bad. I was the one who drove us everywhere, I paid for everything and we always had to stay at my house where he of course, ate my food and used my shower. And since he was jobless, he didn't even have a pot to piss in.

~ Into drugs, even marijuana. Also, no addictions to alcohol, gambling or pornography. No exceptions.

~ Someone who lies. Even "white" lies. Or small lies. A lie is a lie in my book and if someone does not place value on integrity, I will place no value on the person. Plain and simple.

~ Someone who gawks at every hot girl in public. Who needs that....??!

~ Someone who has little empathy toward others. Not cool.


Oh, sweetheart. You need to up your standards a bit. Makes me sad to see some women aim so low....
Anonymous
Post 07/09/2015 00:13     Subject: Deal breakers?
Mine are:

~ Past criminal record, esp. involving violence. One thing may be acceptable, but a pattern of crime is a huge "no-no" for me.

~ Homeless, carless and jobless. My last boyfriend was ALL of these and it sucked so bad. I was the one who drove us everywhere, I paid for everything and we always had to stay at my house where he of course, ate my food and used my shower. And since he was jobless, he didn't even have a pot to piss in.

~ Into drugs, even marijuana. Also, no addictions to alcohol, gambling or pornography. No exceptions.

~ Someone who lies. Even "white" lies. Or small lies. A lie is a lie in my book and if someone does not place value on integrity, I will place no value on the person. Plain and simple.

~ Someone who gawks at every hot girl in public. Who needs that....??!

~ Someone who has little empathy toward others. Not cool.
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2015 20:50     Subject: Deal breakers?
I am a woman. Here is the list:

No education ( at least bachelor's)
Overweight
Small pencil penis
Low sex drive
Closed minded in bed and overall
Not physically active, not interested in doing anything active outdoors
Rude
Mean
Don't like kids
Overally attached to his mom or parents
Introvert
Depressed
Not funny
No ambition to have a job or earn money
Bad breath
Messy or forgetful
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2015 19:38     Subject: Deal breakers?
I am male, and in my early 50's...

Here are my deal breakers:

-- Smoker
-- Drugs
-- uneducated (at least a Bachelors)
-- Anti science (climate change, vaccines, evolution)
-- Strong belief in god.
-- Racist/Sexist/Homophobic/anti-Semitic (I am nominally jewish)
-- Supports any of the extreme right politicians (Trump, Palin, etc)
-- No Job
-- Can not weigh more than me, unless taller than me
-- Does not want to travel
-- Does not understand physical limits of others

--
Anonymous
Post 07/08/2015 18:01     Subject: Deal breakers?
I'm married, so this is a little mentally masturbatory but...

Smoker
Rude/no manners
Arrogant or cocky
Small-minded/ignorant
Unambitious
Dull
Abusive (obv)
Smelly