Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.
They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.
Right, just research.![]()
yes..i went to a body building forum where the guys were discussing never to date strippers because they were train wrecks and they linked to this forum. So even amongst the men they think dating strippers are crazy. So give up berating the OP over what realistically when you look at it is a terrible thing. She is not weird or controlling, she is a concerned mom.
Read some of the posts: disgusting and taking men for your ride. OP should be concerned that her son is a sucker.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197969-After-7-years-and-1-1Million-this-is-what-I-have-learned
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197116-how-do-you-gage-if-he-likes-the-aggressive-slutty-vs-the-classy-shy-type
Its all about the sale. Go there and ignore the stripper AMA bullshit.[/quot
Right. Ignore my perspective, thoughts, experience and insight - I'm just a stripper.![]()
actually yes. you're just a stripper trying to glorify herself vs a whole community of strippers discussing the best ways to hustle money. If you think you're comparable to a surgeon, a nanny who takes care of kids, or a social worker who helps the elderly, or a teacher, you're kidding yourself. You dance naked and try to manipulate men for money. You're far from being empowered. You add less value to society than even a stay at home mom.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.
They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.
Right, just research.![]()
yes..i went to a body building forum where the guys were discussing never to date strippers because they were train wrecks and they linked to this forum. So even amongst the men they think dating strippers are crazy. So give up berating the OP over what realistically when you look at it is a terrible thing. She is not weird or controlling, she is a concerned mom.
Read some of the posts: disgusting and taking men for your ride. OP should be concerned that her son is a sucker.
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197969-After-7-years-and-1-1Million-this-is-what-I-have-learned
https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197116-how-do-you-gage-if-he-likes-the-aggressive-slutty-vs-the-classy-shy-type
Its all about the sale. Go there and ignore the stripper AMA bullshit.[/quot
Right. Ignore my perspective, thoughts, experience and insight - I'm just a stripper.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.
They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.
Right, just research.![]()
Anonymous wrote:By the way there's a forum called strippernet.
They give out all sorts of tips on how to get more money from men and how to string them along and where the best clubs are to dance at. I went there out of curiosity, and I can tell you its pretty sordid.
Anonymous wrote:Has he seen her dance, they have good sense of rhythm and are very caring towards men similar to a nurse
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All right, I'm the OP and I came back to address a few things:
Yes I agree I have no authority over who my son dates. But I do have more invested in his happiness, well-being and success in life than a girlfriend who might leave him at any time, or divorce him after she gets married.
The naivete about strippers in this thread is hysterical. The majority of them have histories of abuse, drug problems, and eventually they start escorting on the side to make more cash. It's well-documented. None of this is news. It's not a "female-empowering" profession, although yes as a feminist we should allow all women to make their own choices. DS's girlfriend is obviously free to make her own choices, I'm not going to police her. But I do have a say over who joins my family.
Every now and then one happy stripper will trot along and do a DCUM AMA or an interview onTV, just like you'll see the PR-friends happy porn star and happy hooker doing the same things. These women DO NOT accurately represent their industry and very often they aren't accurately. It's incredibly naive and delusional to think otherwise.
However, thanks again for your replies, and this thread can end now.
Wow - you are fucking delusional. You do not -- nor will your ever -- trump the woman he marries. I feel sorry for your son.
Anonymous wrote:All right, I'm the OP and I came back to address a few things:
Yes I agree I have no authority over who my son dates. But I do have more invested in his happiness, well-being and success in life than a girlfriend who might leave him at any time, or divorce him after she gets married.
The naivete about strippers in this thread is hysterical. The majority of them have histories of abuse, drug problems, and eventually they start escorting on the side to make more cash. It's well-documented. None of this is news. It's not a "female-empowering" profession, although yes as a feminist we should allow all women to make their own choices. DS's girlfriend is obviously free to make her own choices, I'm not going to police her. But I do have a say over who joins my family.
Every now and then one happy stripper will trot along and do a DCUM AMA or an interview onTV, just like you'll see the PR-friends happy porn star and happy hooker doing the same things. These women DO NOT accurately represent their industry and very often they aren't accurately. It's incredibly naive and delusional to think otherwise.
However, thanks again for your replies, and this thread can end now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Am I the only person who thinks it's odd that OP has a rule that his son isn't allowed to bring a young woman over to visit unless he's "serious" about the relationship? What's the backstory there? I don't imagine my daughter would want to bring a new date over to hang out with her parents, but, if she did, why should that bother me? I can't imagine making a rule like that.
Yes, it's a strange rule.
It''s what makes me think the OP is a troll.
Anonymous wrote:My cousin was a stripper, and she was married and windowed twice to wealthy men who were crazy about her, long after she quit work. Let your son be happy, I know that is what you want.