Anonymous wrote:My type is really intelligent, with an urban/modern sensibility. Kind of skater-ish or in a band (my friends say I like "druggies" but that is an unfair characterization. i do like guys that look creative/look like they can party), and most importantly GOOD BONE STRUCTURE. Also, a long, lean, somewhat muscular build.
Rare for me to find that type so when I do I am a goner. My last BF I resisted for months because I knew he was no good, a huge partier and ladies' man, but I eventually gave in because he fit the type. At the end of the day he lived up to exactly what I thought... but the sex was just GREAT in the meantime.
Currently looking for someone who looks like him without his bad qualities.
OMG are you me? I literally could have written this.
I like the same type of dude and all my friends say I like "druggies" but that is not it exactly... it's hard to describe, and I could see how an outsider would label it as such.
Anyway, my last ex I did the same. Resisted him for months despite obvious attraction because I knew he was a party boy/stoner. Finally gave in and the sex was amazing but I ultimately could not deal the constant being high/partying (and other ladies hitting on him at said parties)/ lack of good decisions.
We should seriously form a support group or something. lol.