Anonymous wrote:But is there really anyone who can defend with a straight face URM preferences for the sons/daughters of highly successful, affluent professionals?
Anonymous wrote:Please. I'm just saying the legacy kids are not always the smartest. Who would disagree with that? Last year, Yale seemed to take the legacies who were the brainiest.
Eh, someone's subjective evaluation of the degree of "braininess" of applicants from general impressions of one's child's peers doesn't really mean much. As an observing parent, you don't know what exactly their transcript was (maybe they had the same or lower GPA as someone else, but took much harder courses, or got better grades in harder courses), if they had a brilliant essay that showed a certain intellectual spark, if they had an overwhelmingly glowing rec letter from a teacher that was clearly more substantial than other applicants, etc. that was the tiebreaker. Not saying that being a legacy doesn't make a difference--it certainly does, but it's sounding like there's a lot of sour grapes on this forum with a lot of information that is unknown.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please. I'm just saying the legacy kids are not always the smartest. Who would disagree with that? Last year, Yale seemed to take the legacies who were the brainiest.
+1. I get what you are saying. Some people on this site are a little touchy when you point out the obvious. Athletes can have lower stats because they bring something else to the table. Same with legacies. Same with URMs. My child got in early somewhere last week from SFS, but most of his friends didn't. And there were a few shocks among his classmates over kids who were legacies getting in while others in the top percentile were wait listed or rejected. But that's life. Fact is, they'll all end up at good schools and most will just be happy to get away from their parents!!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:And I bet the legacy URM had a weaker profile.
I'm betting you're not too familiar with students from highly competitive schools like SFS. I know lots of URM students there (although admittedly not in this year's senior class), and many of them are some of the smartest kids in the class. If a URM child happens to have Ivy-league parents - and all the financial, social, and genetic benefits that pedigree entails - I'd guess the kid has a plenty strong profile.
It seems you're assuming that URM students and legacies are most often less qualified than their peers at top area schools like SFS. In my experience, your assumption is not accurate.
Didn't Obama once say that children like his (Ivy legacy, affluent, lots of resources, successful parents) didn't need preference (call it URM, affirmative action, whatever) because they already have more advantages than most kids? It seems to me that URM should be superfluous rather than additive when the parents are successful corporate executives, managing partners in Big Law and noted surgeons (not to mention president), and who themselves may be legacies at highly selective schools.
Are you the person who wrote the original "weaker profile" comment? If so, you appear to be changing your tune a bit, from "must be a weaker profile" to "doesn't deserve any preference." The common thread is your negative view of URM students.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:And I bet the legacy URM had a weaker profile.
I'm betting you're not too familiar with students from highly competitive schools like SFS. I know lots of URM students there (although admittedly not in this year's senior class), and many of them are some of the smartest kids in the class. If a URM child happens to have Ivy-league parents - and all the financial, social, and genetic benefits that pedigree entails - I'd guess the kid has a plenty strong profile.
It seems you're assuming that URM students and legacies are most often less qualified than their peers at top area schools like SFS. In my experience, your assumption is not accurate.
Didn't Obama once say that children like his (Ivy legacy, affluent, lots of resources, successful parents) didn't need preference (call it URM, affirmative action, whatever) because they already have more advantages than most kids? It seems to me that URM should be superfluous rather than additive when the parents are successful corporate executives, managing partners in Big Law and noted surgeons (not to mention president), and who themselves may be legacies at highly selective schools.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:And I bet the legacy URM had a weaker profile.
I'm betting you're not too familiar with students from highly competitive schools like SFS. I know lots of URM students there (although admittedly not in this year's senior class), and many of them are some of the smartest kids in the class. If a URM child happens to have Ivy-league parents - and all the financial, social, and genetic benefits that pedigree entails - I'd guess the kid has a plenty strong profile.
It seems you're assuming that URM students and legacies are most often less qualified than their peers at top area schools like SFS. In my experience, your assumption is not accurate.
Anonymous wrote:Are Asians considered URMs?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is it that common for 30 Sidwell kids to apply early to two schools? Seems so unwise.
New poster. Isn't this a "damned if you do / damned if you don't" situation? Whether it's Sidwell or some other school, if college counselors encourage students to apply to all the top colleges they might want, the college counselors are criticized for creating a competitive logjam where lots of students get lots of rejection letters. And furthermore, many parents wring their hands about the hyper-focus on Ivy education to the exclusion of all else.
But if college counselors discourage some students from applying to these top colleges (perhaps even because they know there are lots of other better-qualified applicants from the same class), the college counselors are accused of improperly steering students away from their top choices, accused of showing favoritism toward the few students they encourage to apply to the top colleges, and mocked as foolish whenever some student who was discouraged from applying gets lucky enough to be admitted anyway. There's a whole other thread trending right now on DCUM with all these same sentiments. It's a no-win situation IMHO.
Anonymous wrote:Is it that common for 30 Sidwell kids to apply early to two schools? Seems so unwise.
Please. I'm just saying the legacy kids are not always the smartest. Who would disagree with that? Last year, Yale seemed to take the legacies who were the brainiest.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please. I'm just saying the legacy kids are not always the smartest. Who would disagree with that? Last year, Yale seemed to take the legacies who were the brainiest.
+1. I get what you are saying. Some people on this site are a little touchy when you point out the obvious. Athletes can have lower stats because they bring something else to the table. Same with legacies. Same with URMs. My child got in early somewhere last week from SFS, but most of his friends didn't. And there were a few shocks among his classmates over kids who were legacies getting in while others in the top percentile were wait listed or rejected. But that's life. Fact is, they'll all end up at good schools and most will just be happy to get away from their parents!!
Yeah, I heard that the acceptances at the most selective schools were all about legacy and URM status. Please tell me more of what you heard.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Please. I'm just saying the legacy kids are not always the smartest. Who would disagree with that? Last year, Yale seemed to take the legacies who were the brainiest.
+1. I get what you are saying. Some people on this site are a little touchy when you point out the obvious. Athletes can have lower stats because they bring something else to the table. Same with legacies. Same with URMs. My child got in early somewhere last week from SFS, but most of his friends didn't. And there were a few shocks among his classmates over kids who were legacies getting in while others in the top percentile were wait listed or rejected. But that's life. Fact is, they'll all end up at good schools and most will just be happy to get away from their parents!!