Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My DS has an ASD. It is a disorder. But his mental health is just fine.
If it's in the DSM, it's a "mental disorder," in which case, his mental health isn't so fine.
Anonymous wrote:My DS has an ASD. It is a disorder. But his mental health is just fine.
Anonymous wrote:My DS has an ASD. It is a disorder. But his mental health is just fine.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Disorders, not illnesses.
I don't know that there's a difference. In any case, it ain't healthy or good.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know anything about SPD but I was diagnosed with auditory processing issues as a child - if you say a sequence of something out loud, I can not process/receive the information in the order given. So, I'm a grown adult and if you spell a word out loud longer than 3 letters to me, I won't get it - just like a little kid, except I'm not getting not because I can't spell or read the word - I can - but the sequence of information gets jumbled and I just can't process it as an auditory input.
I never really met anyone else with the same diagnosis and I'm not sure if it's still around or considered valid, but I am the only grown, literate adult I know with the issue. I'm not faking and I have seen some of these kids who can not handle noise - they don't seem to be faking either. Whether it requires a formal diagnosis, I don't know. The label I was given never really helped me - no one believed it and none of my teachers were willing to accommodate it by writing words out, instead of spelling them out loud. I'm not sure what the point is of labeling a kid if that doesn't entitle them to some sort of accommodation or a treatment path.
Anonymous wrote:Disorders, not illnesses.
Anonymous wrote:The point is that someone on this thread doesn't know or care that every diagnosis in the DSM is a collection or symptoms. She keeps pointing everything back to parent failures or lack of doing their best. Nice try but it's not going to work!
As PP points out these sensory issues are real... Auditory in her case. Whether sensory integration therapy can help is what I don't know.
Anonymous wrote:Why should parents with kids with sensory issues be held to a "best possible" standard, when any other set of symptoms in the DSM like anxiety, cleptomania, ADHD etc don't require that??
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:First of all, every disorder is an attempt to collect things that seem alike under a category to try to understand it. Just because there's no "biomedical" test doesn't mean it doesn't exist. There are no blood markers for depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, autism . . . but those things clearly exist. That strikes me as such a stupid thing to say that its not worth even repeating. And this is a psychotherapist (with what kind of degree?) and not a medical doctor.
The problem with SPD isn;t that there's a collection of symptoms, its that the collection of symptoms are often the result of something else entirely.
As the NY Times article confirmed, parents simply don't have time (or don't make time) to implement strong routines during early childhood development.
That task is most offen delegated to uninformed babysitters or daycare workers. Parents prefer not to waste their "intelegence" on such menial labor.
"The New York Times confirmed . . ." The NYT is not a source of science, they can't confirm this sort of thing. Everything else you wrote is absurd. SAHM have kids with developmental disorders. Highly structured homes produce kids with developmental disorders. I mean, duh . . .
Are you missing the point on purpose? Read the article. See the research. Early childhood development is hard work.
I don't need to be lectured about how hard it is. I have two children with SN. I am a SAHM who has invested an enormous amount of time on my children. I doubt you would last a day in my circumstances. You really should consider whom you are judging, you are posting in the SN section.