anonymous wrote: I'm 47 and in better shape/better looks than I ever had in my younger years.

The fact you obviously prioritize maintaining (even improving) your pre-marriage fitness level means this thread does not apply to you.
Congratulations and keep it up, you are justified to feel immune from the "hotter woman" fear.

No this thread is more for the frumpy wife who stopped even trying to fit into the wedding gown.
I think this frumpy wife could learn a lot from OP.

I'd guess that 70% of husbands (not just the unhappy ones) would cheat with a hotter woman but most would not leave their wives.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, you need to reframe the question. Not many men are going to leave their otherwise good marriage just for a hot woman. Most men who have affairs have no intention of leaving their wives. Now if you want to know how many men would sleep with a younger hot woman if they could get away with it, my estimate is somewhere between 98-99%.

Guaranteed to get away with it? I think the number is 102%

Nope. See the mature man doesn't base his entire existence on banging young ass every chance he might get. Men who think like that are generally the sort of balding beer guts who hang nudie calendars in the garage and giggle over the pictures with their equally repugnant friends.

And BTW young doesn't mean hot. I'm 47 and in better shape/better looks than I ever had in my younger years.

I read these threads and responses and I'm so.freaking.glad. to be who I am, married to the man I am.

Anonymous wrote:Why did you guys get married at all if "hotness" and looks are all that matter? Did you expect to have a shelf life?

My DH tells me that he married me so that we could grow older together - not so he could sleep with a 30 year old forever.

I feel sorry for these people who assume their husbands are so shallow.

Me too. Why did you marry him in the first place? If you're a horrible person, or cheating, or a drunk, well yeah, then I could understand your DH moving on but just for someone hotter? Hotness isn't just appearance according to my wonderful DH, it's about looking at the other person and seeing the life you've built together, the times you've each other's backs, the inside jokes, the hard times gone through hand in hand, the HISTORY of you two together.Damn.

Even better is not only are they "hot as fuck," but their men are complete and total studs who have women bowl over their mates to get to them. I especially loved the one who said her husband is so in demand, he has women clawing over him, but outside of work, he's a complete and total homebody.

The male studs I know aren't hanging out at home all weekend. They're out, you know, SOCIALIZING and meeting people.

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Anonymous wrote:I love how all these posters are convinced they are "hot" and even "hot as fuck."'

I've been laughing my ass over this as well.

Yes, the nagging shrews are delusional.

Anonymous wrote:I love how all these posters are convinced they are "hot" and even "hot as fuck."'

I've been laughing my ass over this as well.

Anonymous wrote:I would leave mine for a nicer woman! My DW, and my daughter agrees, is a mean bitch.

Why don't you just go back to your other thread and think about how buying gifts for other women might make your wife feel. Oh, you shouldn't be encouraging your daughter to think of her mother as a mean bitch and sit around talking about her like that. It's damaging.

Possibly, but he'd be much more stressed and much poorer, so not too many hotter women may find that attractive.

No.He had 20 years to find the hot woman while living in Miami...

A DH here. Wouldn't, but that doesn't mean I/we don't fantasize about it every minute.

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Anonymous wrote:Guy here. I think perhaps yes if (a) me and DW could still be friends/hook up and hang out occasionally, (b) kids would not be hurt, (c) financially no hit, other woman is out of this world hot, disease free, infertile, multi-orgasmic/borderline nympho, 100% monogamous but open to bringing other women into the bedroom, maintains her own separate residence.

I'm your woman. But stay home with your wife; we can just have an affair.

Tempting but the risk of (b) and (c) above might be too much to bear.

You do know that no one has to know?

Wife here, I promise that 1) I'll find out 2) when I do (a) will never happen and (c) is a guarantee (start writing my checks now) as for (b) that's on you but don't worry, when the kids and I are opening presents Christmas morning and they want to know why it can't be like it used to be with daddy home I'll just tell them to ask you why. Jerk.

This question is oversimplified. I'm not sure how anyone is able to give an honest answer.

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Anonymous wrote:Guy here. I think perhaps yes if (a) me and DW could still be friends/hook up and hang out occasionally, (b) kids would not be hurt, (c) financially no hit, other woman is out of this world hot, disease free, infertile, multi-orgasmic/borderline nympho, 100% monogamous but open to bringing other women into the bedroom, maintains her own separate residence.

I'm your woman. But stay home with your wife; we can just have an affair.

Tempting but the risk of (b) and (c) above might be too much to bear.

You do know that no one has to know?

Anonymous wrote:OP, you need to reframe the question. Not many men are going to leave their otherwise good marriage just for a hot woman. Most men who have affairs have no intention of leaving their wives. Now if you want to know how many men would sleep with a younger hot woman if they could get away with it, my estimate is somewhere between 98-99%.

Guaranteed to get away with it? I think the number is 102%