Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 07:40     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would say most days yes. Brush hair, reapply lipstick, little things like that. Every once in awhile like today when it's ugly and cold out, I get into sweats and don't give a fuck. But overall I do try to make sure he comes home and sees me looking good.


What is your fear that you think will happen if he doesn't see you looking good?


Nothing. But to flip things, if I came home to him each day unshowered, in sweats, looking slovenly... It would be a turn off. Why shoulder not want to look nice for each other?
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 07:26     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, only you know the type,of husband you have. You know what it takes to make him happy.
Mine is okay with me looking just the way I do. I don't think he minds that I don't do what you do.
Mind you, my mascara doesn't smudge.


Do you really think he'd tell you? Just because he loves you no matter how you look doesn't mean you should stop caring about looking nice for him.


My DH tells me he doesn't like makeup and prefers me without.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 07:23     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:The only people who don't benefit from a little makeup are 15 or younger. Any older than that and it would behoove you to put on a little. Not a ton, just a bit does wonders. Just my .02.


Men too? If no, why not?
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 07:14     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would say most days yes. Brush hair, reapply lipstick, little things like that. Every once in awhile like today when it's ugly and cold out, I get into sweats and don't give a fuck. But overall I do try to make sure he comes home and sees me looking good.


What is your fear that you think will happen if he doesn't see you looking good?


Yes, I wonder this too. Do you have kids?
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 07:14     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
I have a one year old and seriously, after the baby i went totally SCHLUMP: unmatching pajamas, sweats that don't fit well, same thing three days in a row (including sleeping), etc. I HAVE actually started to get dressed and fix myself up more before he gets home but when he is not around I secretly slide back to schlump...
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 07:09     Subject: Re:do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:This is actually one of my New Years resolutions. I'm going to stop getting all dolled up for work but coming home and ripping everything off, and slacking off in yoga pants all weekend.

MY DH calls me superwoman because I come home from work and take my work clothes off so fast it's like superman.

On weekends I rarely wear makeup.

I just want to put in more effort this year. My DH deserves it!


I bet it doesn't impact his attraction to you, PP.
I don't see a problem with yoga pants at home.
Anonymous
Post 01/03/2014 01:56     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:I knew my DH was the man for me when I was so drunk I bent over in someone's yard, vomited and managed to fart at the same time. We then had sex in the car. Soul mates.



Hahahahahaha!
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 22:23     Subject: Re:do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
This is actually one of my New Years resolutions. I'm going to stop getting all dolled up for work but coming home and ripping everything off, and slacking off in yoga pants all weekend.

MY DH calls me superwoman because I come home from work and take my work clothes off so fast it's like superman.

On weekends I rarely wear makeup.

I just want to put in more effort this year. My DH deserves it!
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 22:16     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You don't fart in front of your husband either, right?


not op, but i don't and i expect the same. i hate stinky farts. i literally gag.

tell me about the crap you just took. pick your nose. cut your toenails. hack up a loog, i don't care. but do NOT fart in front of me!


I poop with the bathroom door open and once sharted.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 22:14     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
I knew my DH was the man for me when I was so drunk I bent over in someone's yard, vomited and managed to fart at the same time. We then had sex in the car. Soul mates.

Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 20:36     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Okay, PP. But I bet your husband would LOVE it if you surprised him with a little more effort some night when you are going out. But if the bare minimum works for - clean vagina and whatnot - go with it.


Oh, of course. When we are going OUT then heck yes I glam up a bit.
I was talking about a regular day when he comes home from work.


There may be hope for you yet!
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 20:35     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Okay, PP. But I bet your husband would LOVE it if you surprised him with a little more effort some night when you are going out. But if the bare minimum works for - clean vagina and whatnot - go with it.



Hahahaha. Clean vagina, all of your teeth, no visible fungus.


Right? Those are some rock bottom standards.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 20:34     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:Okay, PP. But I bet your husband would LOVE it if you surprised him with a little more effort some night when you are going out. But if the bare minimum works for - clean vagina and whatnot - go with it.


Oh, of course. When we are going OUT then heck yes I glam up a bit.
I was talking about a regular day when he comes home from work.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 20:34     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:Okay, PP. But I bet your husband would LOVE it if you surprised him with a little more effort some night when you are going out. But if the bare minimum works for - clean vagina and whatnot - go with it.



Hahahaha. Clean vagina, all of your teeth, no visible fungus.
Anonymous
Post 01/02/2014 20:33     Subject: do you "fix yourself up" before Dh comes home?
Anonymous wrote:Too funny. I did not read all the thread, but am wondering if OP is newly married.


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