Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone depends on someone, but as pps have said, it is very likely that we may not be around/able bodied before the kid is 18. most people have someone to depend on, but as it stands, it looks inevitable that the child will need care other than our own anyway.
How do your older children feel about it?
They feel that we have been good parents to them, they think we could raise another, but the eldest supports our choice of adoption
Is your eldest male or female?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone depends on someone, but as pps have said, it is very likely that we may not be around/able bodied before the kid is 18. most people have someone to depend on, but as it stands, it looks inevitable that the child will need care other than our own anyway.
How do your older children feel about it?
They feel that we have been good parents to them, they think we could raise another, but the eldest supports our choice of adoption
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Everyone depends on someone, but as pps have said, it is very likely that we may not be around/able bodied before the kid is 18. most people have someone to depend on, but as it stands, it looks inevitable that the child will need care other than our own anyway.
How do your older children feel about it?
Anonymous wrote:Everyone depends on someone, but as pps have said, it is very likely that we may not be around/able bodied before the kid is 18. most people have someone to depend on, but as it stands, it looks inevitable that the child will need care other than our own anyway.
Anonymous wrote:Was your #3 planned?
Anonymous wrote:Is it a boy or a girl? Did you do maternit21?
Anonymous wrote:Adoption because:
-we are old. plain and simple. I don't wanna be 60 and chasing around a 4 year old. I don't think its fair to restrict a kid because I don't want to run around with him/her
-I don't want to depend on the fact that my older kids will take care of the child if something happens to us.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:obviously accidental. The age concern is an issue to us. We are looking into open adoption.
Wait - are you OP?
yes
How can you give up your own child for adoption???
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:obviously accidental. The age concern is an issue to us. We are looking into open adoption.
Wait - are you OP?
yes
How can you give up your own child for adoption???
Well I am quite thankful that my birth parents gave me up for adoption!! My family is amazing and I certainly wouldn't be where I am without them!!