Lack of affection!

dumb guys who aren't funny

Hahahaha Hobbit toes and tiny Hobbit feet. Now I'm going to have to take a look next time I see a guy in sandals.

Anonymous wrote:Short and/or a bad taste in shoes. Crocs are a dealbreaker.
I also cannot stand men in sandals! I don't want to look at your gross, hairy feet. I don't care if it's hot. Unless you are on the beach, get your Hobbit toes away from me. And if they're tiny Hobbit feet in sandals, I'm even more turned off.

Different strokes.

I have a thing for guys' feet. I love sandal season. I like looking at mens' feet.

Anonymous wrote:Doesn't look you in the eyes when you are talking to them. This really bothers me. I can't figure out what is going on. When they are talking to you they are looking you in the eyes, but you start talking they look away.

If I'm boring you, why do you keep asking me out? I guess my other question should be, if you're doing this - why do I keep going out with you?

They are listening as hard as they can. It's very common for people who have problems reading facial expressions to look away from faces so that they can concentrate on listening. Looking away from the face decreases the cognitive load required to read facial expressions and lets them concentrate on just decoding your words.

I have a kid with mixed receptive and expressive language deficits. He doesn't make eye contact when he is listening to people talk. He is listening as hard as he can.

I have a lot:

Not clean - if a guy doesn't clean his body, teeth, hair, car and apartment within a reasonable degree, it's a deal breaker. I don't expect it to be perfect, but I do expect it not to smell. Take a shower, brush your teeth, take out the trash, do the dishes, do the laundry.

No sense of humor.

Weight - I don't mind a chubby guy, but if your belly hangs down over your dick, you are too fat. A large hanging panus (sp?) freaks me out.

No sense of adventure. This is especially true for sex and food. If don't like trying news things, it's a "no" for me.

Work-obsessed. If you love your job, that's awesome. If you don't have time for anything else, I'm not the girl for you.

Status obsessed. If you are competing with other guys all the time, you are ridiculous to me. You are too insecure.

Dumb. If you're not smart, you are not hot to me. Smart guys are really, really hot.

Common interests. We don't have to do everything together, but there should be one or two interests that we share. If we don't have any common interests, we don't belong together.

Jealous. If you don't trust me, then I don't have time for you. I don't cheat. You can believe it or not. If you don't believe it, then you don't belong with me.

Violent. If you hit women or sexually coerce them, you don't belong with me. If you get into physical altercations with other people, you don't belong with me.

If a guy talks disrespectfully about other women. If he uses "bitch," "ho," etc. That's different than just complaining about someone. Anger issues in general.

Bait and Switcher

Controlling
Egomaniac
Cheats
Cheap
Selfish
Lack of personal hygiene

Loser

Cheap

wimpy
not being able to fix things around the house
not backing up his wife/partner

bad breath
bad teeth
lack of ambition
arrogant
little or no manners
hygiene
short

Lying, game player
Arrogance
Lack of respect for women
Foul language
No ambition
Poor manners

No self respect and lack of character