Anonymous wrote:Sigh. I was hoping this thread was restarted to state that this program was finally disbanded or opened up to all. Please don't restart this thread unless there is good news to share that Keen Mill Al Fresco is now open to both gen ed and AAP students.
Anonymous wrote:I'm the parent of a child in AAP at Keene Mill. I have a younger child that may very well not be in the AAP program (which I will be 100% fine with because I fully believe and teach my children that everyone has their own unique talents, gifts and things they excel in). I'm already fully preparing to organize a camp weekend for general ed. students if the time comes. If my child is in general Ed and asks me why there isn't a camp he can attend the answer that general ed kids can't go wouldn't fly because my child would respond with "why can't YOU help organize it?". I also believe in and teach my kids to take responsibility for things that can be changed. I can't understand why parents would rather put in the effort to shut down the experience instead of putting those efforts toward planning a similar weekend for the general ed kids. The Alfresco planning committee clearly doesn't have a problem sharing details of the program. It's already been mentioned that the camp isn't big enough for all students. Maybe the solution is to have three weekends, one for each grade. I should also point out that the camp isn't widely discussed at school. Not all AAP kids attend the camp so I made sure to tell my child not to discuss the camp in school to make sure no one felt left out (similar to when you receive a bday party invitation but you don't know if the entire class is invited). I was told that no one had talked about it and in fact when I first told my child about it, she had never heard of Al Fresco and I had to explain what it was.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Keene Mill AAP parent. I find the alfresco to be a disgusting idea. In no way, shape, or form do I want to teach my child this kind of elitism. Why a parent would buy into this knowing it is so exclusionary is beyond me. What happened to kindness, empathy and just straight up compassion? How would you feel if you were a general education kid and you really wanted to go but too bad, so sad because you aren't smart enough to be in AAP. Gross.
As a Keene Mill AAP parent, can you not do something about it? Bring it up at a PTA meeting? It's exclusionary programs like this (it's actually the only one I know of) that give AAP a bad name in the County.
No, unfortunately. There is no school or PTA involvement. You could talk directly to the organizers but I doubt they would consider discontinuing the practice. I'm sure whoever is organizing has heard these complaints before. The fastest way to shut it down is for the parents to stop sending their kids.
That's ridiculous. You completely can do something about it. Stop posting about the problems of AAP and actually do something about it at your own school. Stop waiting for someone else to deal with the problem or for kids to move out. How would that help you anyway? Bring it up at the PTA meeting and with the principal as a divisive issue you see in the school. Plan a new activity that will include the entire school and will replace this program. I'm sure there are more parents like you who would support a fix. This program has been one of the causes of people rallying against AAP and now asking for the program to be shut down. Take some initiative to fix the problem. We have had some problems like this and have been able to fix them within our own PTA.
Anonymous wrote:On the heels of Dr Seuss week at my kid's school last week this type of segregation reminds me of the Star Belly Sneetches. Segregate by class for academics yes. But there is no reason in the works extra curriculars should be segregated this way.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Keene Mill AAP parent. I find the alfresco to be a disgusting idea. In no way, shape, or form do I want to teach my child this kind of elitism. Why a parent would buy into this knowing it is so exclusionary is beyond me. What happened to kindness, empathy and just straight up compassion? How would you feel if you were a general education kid and you really wanted to go but too bad, so sad because you aren't smart enough to be in AAP. Gross.
As a Keene Mill AAP parent, can you not do something about it? Bring it up at a PTA meeting? It's exclusionary programs like this (it's actually the only one I know of) that give AAP a bad name in the County.
No, unfortunately. There is no school or PTA involvement. You could talk directly to the organizers but I doubt they would consider discontinuing the practice. I'm sure whoever is organizing has heard these complaints before. The fastest way to shut it down is for the parents to stop sending their kids.
That's ridiculous. You completely can do something about it. Stop posting about the problems of AAP and actually do something about it at your own school. Stop waiting for someone else to deal with the problem or for kids to move out. How would that help you anyway? Bring it up at the PTA meeting and with the principal as a divisive issue you see in the school. Plan a new activity that will include the entire school and will replace this program. I'm sure there are more parents like you who would support a fix. This program has been one of the causes of people rallying against AAP and now asking for the program to be shut down. Take some initiative to fix the problem. We have had some problems like this and have been able to fix them within our own PTA.
The PTA of Keene should do a sixth grade lock in or event on the same weekend.
This is actually a good idea. Start planning a big event for the entire school the weekend of the event. This way that event will be bigger and more inclusive than this AAP retreat.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I actually just came back from camp Al fresco 2 hours ago, it is a great way to make friends and the pranking is apart of the fun . It is ran by the AAP parents and they pay for all of the supplies that's why only the AAP kids get to go.
This is circular logic. Gen Ed kids aren't invited so Gen Ed parents have no reason/opportunity to contribute, and then you say AAP parents pay for all of the supplies so that's why only AAP kids get to go. I'm sure there are Gen Ed parents who would have happily paid for supplies if Gen Ed kids were invited.
You are talking to a child on this one.
Perhaps approaching it differently that arguing circular logic might be more effective. Most kids are generally kind and emphatetic, so framing things from that angle might actually reach this poster.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Keene Mill AAP parent. I find the alfresco to be a disgusting idea. In no way, shape, or form do I want to teach my child this kind of elitism. Why a parent would buy into this knowing it is so exclusionary is beyond me. What happened to kindness, empathy and just straight up compassion? How would you feel if you were a general education kid and you really wanted to go but too bad, so sad because you aren't smart enough to be in AAP. Gross.
As a Keene Mill AAP parent, can you not do something about it? Bring it up at a PTA meeting? It's exclusionary programs like this (it's actually the only one I know of) that give AAP a bad name in the County.
No, unfortunately. There is no school or PTA involvement. You could talk directly to the organizers but I doubt they would consider discontinuing the practice. I'm sure whoever is organizing has heard these complaints before. The fastest way to shut it down is for the parents to stop sending their kids.
That's ridiculous. You completely can do something about it. Stop posting about the problems of AAP and actually do something about it at your own school. Stop waiting for someone else to deal with the problem or for kids to move out. How would that help you anyway? Bring it up at the PTA meeting and with the principal as a divisive issue you see in the school. Plan a new activity that will include the entire school and will replace this program. I'm sure there are more parents like you who would support a fix. This program has been one of the causes of people rallying against AAP and now asking for the program to be shut down. Take some initiative to fix the problem. We have had some problems like this and have been able to fix them within our own PTA.
The PTA of Keene should do a sixth grade lock in or event on the same weekend.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I actually just came back from camp Al fresco 2 hours ago, it is a great way to make friends and the pranking is apart of the fun . It is ran by the AAP parents and they pay for all of the supplies that's why only the AAP kids get to go.
This is circular logic. Gen Ed kids aren't invited so Gen Ed parents have no reason/opportunity to contribute, and then you say AAP parents pay for all of the supplies so that's why only AAP kids get to go. I'm sure there are Gen Ed parents who would have happily paid for supplies if Gen Ed kids were invited.