Anonymous wrote:Oh wow, I just saw the bump from many months ago -- thanks, it was so sweet of you to check in. This is the OP.
I'm endlessly grateful to report that our beautiful, healthy daughter just had her first birthday. I got pregnant again three months after all the heartache that I poured out in this thread. We were on pins and needles for the first few months of the pregnancy, till all the genetic tests came back -- but for whatever reason, we managed to hit the jackpot this time around. Fourth try was the charm for us, I guess.
I hope this brings a little bit of hope to others who are going through the same hell we did. These stories don't always end happily, but sometimes they do -- even when the outlook seems bleak at best. My daughter is living proof.
And I still shake my head in wonder and gratitude at the incredible support that I got from this forum. I actually printed out this whole thread and saved it, so that I could always remember the caring that came from total anonymous strangers. It reassures me to know that the world is full of many such hidden kindnesses. I sometimes sit on the Metro and think, "Maybe one of the people in this car was one of the posters on DCUM." So once again -- thank you. You guys made a real difference during one of the hardest and saddest times of our lives.
Oh my lord OP, this is so very wonderful. I am in tears both for you, your family and because we were all able to help each other.
Happy birthday to your little one!! Enjoy the cake.
