Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anus
Do you pronounce that Aye-nus or Ah-nus?
KIDDING!!!!!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:the hell? people, i realize some of you have conceptions of gender rooted in the 18th century or so and might actually care about the answer to the OP's question. but can we at least attempt to keep it civil?
The snark. You have missed it.
Anonymous wrote:the hell? people, i realize some of you have conceptions of gender rooted in the 18th century or so and might actually care about the answer to the OP's question. but can we at least attempt to keep it civil?
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If you give a boy a name that is gender-neutral you are ensuring that he grows up to be a huge fag. Can't have that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Okay, you can't complain about Andy and Alex being girls' nicknames, they have been around as long as Alexandra/ia and Andrea.
I get the annoyance of names switching genders, but what is the obsession parents of boys have with not having gender-neutral or shared names for their sons at all? It's not the end of the world if a girl shares your son's name.
There is no such thing as a gender neutral name. When a mom says that, she means that she wants people to think that her girl is a boy. Perhaps deep down she thinks that it will help with job prospects, or maybe she just hates everything feminine because she sees femininity as weak. "No Bella's or Elizabeth's for me! No sir, my girls name will be Maxwell Drew". Whatever the case, "I want a gender neutral name" = "I want a masculine name".
I'd hate to be a man with the name Ashley or Carol. And I will not do that to my son if I can help it. If I had a daughter, the same notion would apply.
If it bugs you that much, tell them not to use a nickname. Besides, unless you're dressing your son in a dress, I'm pretty sure people aren't going to look at Alexander and mistake him for Alexandra because someone calls him "Alex".
I wasn't responding to the part about Andy or Alex. I was responding to "what is the obsession parents of boys have with not having gender-neutral or shared names for their sons at all?"
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anthony
Yeah, but there are enough girls named Toni running around.
Where do you see all these girls named Toni?
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