Glad to hear you're doing better, OP. I'm just sorry this thread was revived in such a hateful, unsupportive way. I hope you're making time for yourself. You deserve it, you need it. Hugs to you.

OP here. I'm still around, but didn't notice this thread was revived over the last few days. Thank you all for your thoughtful and understanding comments. Yes, I did make my original post on an especially difficult day and my level of frustration and pain was at its height. I still feel many of the sentiments I initially posted about, but in general I'm coping better, and DD seems to be demonstrating some real progress. The road ahead is uncertain and sure to be difficult, but I appreciate everyone here who allowed me to vent.