Anonymous wrote:I will usually sing the highest praises of Scandinavia, and I have family in Sweden.
But this is just so wrong, I don't know how it could go through, after being turned down by the court initially, and I don't know why India is not up in arms about it.
I hold Norway to a higher standard than this, clearly the children should be returned to their parents. But enough of the talk: OP, is there noone in the Indian community collecting signatures? Are there no Indian lawyers jumping on this case?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:No, Mrs Early Assumption. I'm not talking about India. Why did you think I was?
Maybe because this entire thread is about an Indian family?
What country were you referring to then? Two posters asked and you did not respond. I'll guess you were just making shit up.
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I will also add that some Indian kids' behavior is absolutely atrocious. Yes, some American kids also behave terribly, but Indians are by no mean, perfect. I am often horrified by how some of my nieces and nephews behave in public, and at home. Their parents seem to not care about discipline at all. And, especially with regards to sons - they seem to deserve some special treatment where they can get away with all sorts of bad behavior. Bedtime at my SILs house is always a nightmare for her. And, the kids are allowed to be disrespectful without consequence. Again, this is not ALL Indian kids - I for one, am trying my best not to raise my kids this way - but, there is a different approach to parenting.
And this justifies taking infant/toddler kids away from their parents?
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I will also add that some Indian kids' behavior is absolutely atrocious. Yes, some American kids also behave terribly, but Indians are by no mean, perfect. I am often horrified by how some of my nieces and nephews behave in public, and at home. Their parents seem to not care about discipline at all. And, especially with regards to sons - they seem to deserve some special treatment where they can get away with all sorts of bad behavior. Bedtime at my SILs house is always a nightmare for her. And, the kids are allowed to be disrespectful without consequence. Again, this is not ALL Indian kids - I for one, am trying my best not to raise my kids this way - but, there is a different approach to parenting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Different cultures have different standards. Which culture is right? As immigration into different countries by vastly different cultures increases I am afraid we will see more of this. If you move to another culture, you have to assimilate a bit to local customs. I am not sure what Norway did is right as I haven't read the child protective services' file on the family. I cannot imagine that cosleeping is that taboo in Norway though!
I will say many people from other countries come here to graduate school (China, India, Iran, Bangladesh, Pakistan to name some from my classes) and expect their traditions and cultural norms to be honored here. Our culture is vastly different from theirs.
Wasn't there a case here in the US where a Scandinavian woman who left her baby in a stroller outside of a restaurant while she was inside (because that is what they do in her home country) was arrested and her child taken from her?
We also find appalling and criminalize things that are ok in other countries like honor killings.
I read that some state, maybe CA, was considering taking into account the cultural background of criminals during trial.
Anonymous wrote:The hand feeding thing is gross.
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It is immaterial how good Norway is about everything else and how awful India is otherwise, on the issue of these children being taken away, Norway is plain wrong. And btw the Indian government doesn't come out smelling like roses. Any country that truly cared about it's citizens--and both parents and the children are Indian citizens--would come down on this like a ton of bricks. I know Hillary would if something like this ever happened to me--and grateful for that.
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Now you finay exactly what happens when you don't do exactly what they want you to do. Silly Americans. So cute with your "freedom" and "rights". So clueless about the rest of the world.
Where are you from? You sound like a bitch.
All Americans are clueless? Have you been to other countries? Indians are incredibly racist. Save your insults. They don't help your case at all.
Um, I am going to hope you were being facetious when you said Indians were racist, because you're not exactly doing Americans any favors with that statement.
I'm Indian. And I find Americans to be less racist than Indians in general. Calling people 'Silly Americans' was just condescending and rude. Maybe that attitude is why they found that the poor kid in the story was 'arrogant' and obnoxious in school.