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Anonymous wrote:Think of Mother Teresa's ancient face, and how people raved about the aura of peace and love around her. That is all you need to focus on.

I totally would have hit that.

Susan Shields, formerly a senior nun with the order, recalled that one year there was roughly $50m in the bank account held by the New York office alone. Much of the money, she complained, sat in banks while workers in the homes were obliged to reuse blunt needles. The order has stopped reusing needles, but the poor care remains pervasive. One nurse told me of a case earlier this year where staff knew a patient had typhoid but made no effort to protect volunteers or other patients. "The sense was that God will provide and if the worst happens - it is God's will."

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Anonymous wrote:Man here.

Well, what I do NOT find attractive on older women is bulging neck veins or age spots. If you are lucky enough to avoid those, and you're cute, then you'll still get my attention.

And I, for one, do not like a flaccid penis.

Yep. Women haven't cornered the market on aging badly and having things sag and change. I think that's why I'm so hung up on Rob Pattinson/Edward - 17 forever!!!

Just kidding. I don't dig on 17 year old boys but in reality when he was filming he was older. Pretty sure in 20 years from now he won't have the same appeal. Honestly I can't think of one hot male who has the appeal he did when he was younger, with the exception of the freakishly blessed Johnny Depp. Even Brad Pitt is looking worse for wear.

Anonymous wrote:OP, I apologize for posting as a woman, but this is a sensitive subject for me, and I just wanted to share a couple thoughts.

Yesterday, when I brought my 14 and 13 year old daughters to the orthodontist to get their braces on, the receptionist thought I was there to get MY braces on. It took a bit before I could convince her I was their mother. The waiting room had a good laugh, especially because I'm pregnant, though I don't think she could see my tummy under the counter.

I am always carded hard, always mistaken for the babysitter. I've never worn sunscreen or makeup in my life, and I'm not in perfect shape. I just look young.

But I'm 35 now, and I had a hard time on my birthday, because it hit me that I was AMA now. I will get old. I will not always have babies.

As a military wife, I could recount dozens and dozens of conversations with other military wives who were spending deployment pay on plastic surgery. These were women in their 20s and early 30s, getting breast enlargements and tummy tucks with their husband's enthusiastic approval. I bit my lip and thought, "Don't these men know THEY are going to get old, too?"

I don't understand this whole issue, though becoming AMA gave me a tiny hint as to why this might be so upsetting to some people. Maybe it's our porn-saturated society, I don't know. I do know this, OP. What is important is love. Think of Mother Teresa's ancient face, and how people raved about the aura of peace and love around her. That is all you need to focus on.

I mean, if "30 year old dad" is not a parody, which I doubt, think of how goofy he comes across? Are those kinds of mindless, ridiculous, downright silly perspectives going to inform your actions AT ALL? I hope not!

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Anonymous wrote:30 year old dad again. I had to RSS this thread. Love it. Look she asked what men look for and I gave her my list. I should also add a natural looking tan (non jersey shore), a good sorority and preferably she went to an SEC school. That's what I and all my buddies liked and married. Don't believe me? Ask any young associate living in glover park. I can't help it if I'm not attracted to less than hot women that went to uppity New England all girls schools.

Also I must add my personal fetish is a hot black woman. Think Kerry Washington. I would sleep with her in our bed. I've met black women in LA who are really hot. The ones in DC are like their white liberal counterparts.

No way a dude wrote this. Too many disingenuous phrases like "natural looking tan," "good sorority," "young associate," and "uppity" girls school. What guy uses the word "uppity"?

Agreed. No question. Bitter DW wrote this.

Bitter about what, exactly? This doesn't make sense.

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Anonymous wrote:Man here.

Well, what I do NOT find attractive on older women is bulging neck veins or age spots. If you are lucky enough to avoid those, and you're cute, then you'll still get my attention.

And I, for one, do not like a flaccid penis.

Anonymous wrote:Think of Mother Teresa's ancient face, and how people raved about the aura of peace and love around her. That is all you need to focus on.

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

Well, what I do NOT find attractive on older women is bulging neck veins or age spots. If you are lucky enough to avoid those, and you're cute, then you'll still get my attention.

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Anonymous wrote:30 year old dad again. I had to RSS this thread. Love it. Look she asked what men look for and I gave her my list. I should also add a natural looking tan (non jersey shore), a good sorority and preferably she went to an SEC school. That's what I and all my buddies liked and married. Don't believe me? Ask any young associate living in glover park. I can't help it if I'm not attracted to less than hot women that went to uppity New England all girls schools.

Also I must add my personal fetish is a hot black woman. Think Kerry Washington. I would sleep with her in our bed. I've met black women in LA who are really hot. The ones in DC are like their white liberal counterparts.

No way a dude wrote this. Too many disingenuous phrases like "natural looking tan," "good sorority," "young associate," and "uppity" girls school. What guy uses the word "uppity"?

Agreed. No question. Bitter DW wrote this.

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Anonymous wrote:30 year old dad again. I had to RSS this thread. Love it. Look she asked what men look for and I gave her my list. I should also add a natural looking tan (non jersey shore), a good sorority and preferably she went to an SEC school. That's what I and all my buddies liked and married. Don't believe me? Ask any young associate living in glover park. I can't help it if I'm not attracted to less than hot women that went to uppity New England all girls schools.

Also I must add my personal fetish is a hot black woman. Think Kerry Washington. I would sleep with her in our bed. I've met black women in LA who are really hot. The ones in DC are like their white liberal counterparts.

No way a dude wrote this. Too many disingenuous phrases like "natural looking tan," "good sorority," "young associate," and "uppity" girls school. What guy uses the word "uppity"?

Anonymous wrote:30 year old dad again. I had to RSS this thread. Love it. Look she asked what men look for and I gave her my list. I should also add a natural looking tan (non jersey shore), a good sorority and preferably she went to an SEC school. That's what I and all my buddies liked and married. Don't believe me? Ask any young associate living in glover park. I can't help it if I'm not attracted to less than hot women that went to uppity New England all girls schools.

Also I must add my personal fetish is a hot black woman. Think Kerry Washington. I would sleep with her in our bed. I've met black women in LA who are really hot. The ones in DC are like their white liberal counterparts.

Anonymous wrote:30 year old dad again. I had to RSS this thread. Love it. Look she asked what men look for and I gave her my list. I should also add a natural looking tan (non jersey shore), a good sorority and preferably she went to an SEC school. That's what I and all my buddies liked and married. Don't believe me? Ask any young associate living in glover park. I can't help it if I'm not attracted to less than hot women that went to uppity New England all girls schools.

Also I must add my personal fetish is a hot black woman. Think Kerry Washington. I would sleep with her in our bed. I've met black women in LA who are really hot. The ones in DC are like their white liberal counterparts.