Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 10:46     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
...don't forget lascivious smile.....
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 10:36     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything I'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.


I'm sure you do.

But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is


I love it! Love the reaction Women don't always remember how visual guys are.


We are certainly that

Plus we feel that you are doing it just for us. Personally I like it when you leave some of it on as things progress.


That's why the teddies have snaps....of course I am wearing it just for you.

Pale skin, red teddie, nice picture.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 10:34     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything I'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.


I'm sure you do.

But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is


I love it! Love the reaction Women don't always remember how visual guys are.


We are certainly that

Plus we feel that you are doing it just for us. Personally I like it when you leave some of it on as things progress.


That's why the teddies have snaps....of course I am wearing it just for you.
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 10:32     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything I'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.


I'm sure you do.

But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is


I love it! Love the reaction Women don't always remember how visual guys are.


We are certainly that

Plus we feel that you are doing it just for us. Personally I like it when you leave some of it on as things progress.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 10:22     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything I'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.


I'm sure you do.

But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is


I love it! Love the reaction Women don't always remember how visual guys are.
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 10:17     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything I'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.


I'm sure you do.

But then just having a woman willing to wear the "funtime" lingerie for her man is wonderful enough as it is
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 10:15     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Red's my favorite color - you know, passion is everything I'm a pale brunette, so I've always thought color is better on me than either white or black.
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 10:08     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:I didn't realize black was so much the favorite, over white and red. Live and learn.

Thanks for the conversation. If there's ever an update, I'll post


All three colors are quite nice, it looks really sexy against a contrasting skin tone, so black (at least to me) looks great against paler skin, white is my prefrence against tanned or darker skin, and well red does them both justice.

I look forward to any updates you might have.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 10:03     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
I didn't realize black was so much the favorite, over white and red. Live and learn.

Thanks for the conversation. If there's ever an update, I'll post
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 09:52     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "

There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?


Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?

But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere


Maybe I should broaden my horizons and look beyond this guy....


Maybe, if you want to do it there are plenty of men to choose from. But then also you feel comfortable around this person which may explain how it bagan in the first place.


You're right. I'm not really interested in cheating in general. There is a spark with this guy, but I can't blame him if he has cold feet. His life is probably complicated enough. I just keep thinking that it's probably been years since he saw his wife in lingerie, and I know he likes black....

What man doesn't
But I also think you've answered your own questions. I hope whatever you decide, you end up a happier woman for it.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 09:44     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "

There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?


Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?

But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere


Maybe I should broaden my horizons and look beyond this guy....


Maybe, if you want to do it there are plenty of men to choose from. But then also you feel comfortable around this person which may explain how it bagan in the first place.


You're right. I'm not really interested in cheating in general. There is a spark with this guy, but I can't blame him if he has cold feet. His life is probably complicated enough. I just keep thinking that it's probably been years since he saw his wife in lingerie, and I know he likes black....
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 09:27     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "

There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?


Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?

But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere


Maybe I should broaden my horizons and look beyond this guy....


Maybe, if you want to do it there are plenty of men to choose from. But then also you feel comfortable around this person which may explain how it bagan in the first place.
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 09:24     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
ThatSmileyFaceGuy wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "

There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?


Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?

But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere


Maybe I should broaden my horizons and look beyond this guy....
ThatSmileyFaceGuy
Post 09/20/2011 09:22     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
Anonymous wrote:"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "

There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?


Sure it does, who doesn't want to be pursued?

But then if you don't step on the gas once in awhile, the car never goes anywhere
Anonymous
Post 09/20/2011 09:16     Subject: Re:Is there really any way to have another relationship without destroying the marriage?
"Sure think about it, it's not a decision to be made lightly. As for never being alone, all you need is three minutes to wrap him in your arms and kiss him soundly. "

There's another factor here. I have a higher libido than my husband, so if I'm going to have a passionate affair, I'd like to be the one pursued. Make sense?