Anonymous
Post 06/19/2026 10:21     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous wrote:33 U.S. states still allow individuals under 18 to marry, typically requiring parental and/or judicial consent. Only 17 states (and Washington, D.C.) have completely banned marriage before age 18 without exceptions.


wow! that many states still allow marriages under 18. with
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 16:01     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Imho if you aren’t old enough to drive or vote, you aren’t old enough to marry. However, state should support, protect and trade train you to become independent.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:57     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

33 U.S. states still allow individuals under 18 to marry, typically requiring parental and/or judicial consent. Only 17 states (and Washington, D.C.) have completely banned marriage before age 18 without exceptions.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:55     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No church, mosque, synagogue or temple would participate in an illegal marriage.


Mosques / Islam allows marriage of girls as young as 9 years old.

Islam also allows, and even encourages, polygamous marriages of one man with multiple women.


If there is war or famine and not enough men available to support women who couldn’t and had no social network. It’s banned in most Muslim countries and only people who do it, misinterpret out of context and timed rulings for their own benefit.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:28     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous wrote:No church, mosque, synagogue or temple would participate in an illegal marriage.


Mosques / Islam allows marriage of girls as young as 9 years old.

Islam also allows, and even encourages, polygamous marriages of one man with multiple women.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:17     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Also not old enough to have random pregnancies and become single welfare mom.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:15     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anecdotes aside, 15 year old today is much naive, world much complex and life spans much longer, government support possible hence this isn’t the age to marry in 2026.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:12     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

* That being said, parents didn’t encourage their own kids to marry before 25.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 15:10     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

My mom was 15 and dad 20 when they married. Mom had a dozen siblings and was basically deputy mother there, homeschooling herself. Dad was a student in evening college and worked in an office during day time. Both migrated after war but dad by himself and mom with family. Both felt lonely and when relatives suggested marriage, both were happy. They built a good, upper middle class family and raised 5 professionals. Some times, these relationships save people.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 12:30     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Can’t speak to the legality of it but I am from Eastern Europe and remember a lot of marriages in the 1990s where a 6 year difference is nothing. It wasn’t legal to marry before 18 but I knew couples who started dating when she was 14-16 and then got married when she was 18 and he would be like 25 or so by then. It was seen as a good thing, the girl is mature and successful blah blah.
FWIW the country had like 99% literacy rate so not exactly a shitehole.
I am not surprised if it’s acceptable in Hispanic culture as well. Just more traditional societies.
It’s probably not a great setup but also doesn’t make my blood boil you know? Some people aren’t going to develop much educationally anyway. Maybe it’s something that suits them.


I know that historically marrying girls off in their early teens was often done. But it doesn't mean it's right. It was convenient for patriarchies to have girls stay submissive and beholden to men, whether their father or their husband. So if society makes it look cool, what it means is that they're encouraging women to stay in that cycle.

I met my older husband at 19 and married him at 23, so I'm not against marrying young! But at least I knew what I was doing



It’s their community and their traditions so whatever imho
There will always be people on government benefits anyway
And many of these girls who tend to marry young and become mothers are not academically inclined so what else would they do with their lives?



getting married so early should not be the way. They are getting pushed into this. WTH

My grandmother was 15 and my grandfather was in his 40s when they got married in Idaho. My greatgrandparents parents encouraged it because he was a hardworking man. They were strict LDS. My grandparents went on to have 11 kids. 7 daughters and 4 sons. My grandmother had a great marriage. When my grandpa passed, she didn’t want to talk to be with any other men—she loved him so much.

In comparison, My mom got married at 22, no college, dad was 31, and they had 7 kids by 34.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 12:15     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous wrote:Who may marry in Pennsylvania?

Any two consenting parties over the age of eighteen (18) may marry in Pennsylvania.

A party’s parent or guardian must consent when the party is less than eighteen (18) years
of age.

The Court’s consent must be obtained when either applicant is under the age of sixteen (16).

Nope. There is no parental consent clause anymore. https://www.palegis.us/statutes/consolidated/view-statute?txtType=HTM&ttl=23&div=0&chapter=13
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2026 12:12     Subject: Weird marriage - guy 21, girl 15

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You can't legally marry under 18 in PA so someone is lying or wrong about the age. Either way, call the police and CPS


I checked and marriage at younger age is allowed with parental consent but 15 is too young. I think you can get married at 16 with parental consent.

No, law was changed in PA in 2020. Absolutely no marriage before age 18.
https://www.palegis.us/statutes/consolidated/view-statute?txtType=HTM&ttl=23&div=0&chapter=13