Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. My daughter is an adult now, so it's really not my job to make her go to the doctor. She makes her own healthcare decisions.
Based on her symptoms, it doesn't seem like a UTI or an STD—it appears to be a yeast infection. She's planning to eat yogurt and doesn't want to use any OTC treatments. I'm willing to buy something for her if she changes her mind, she still hasn’t,but I've heard clotrimazole 7 day is better than but the prices are a bit jarring.
Your job is to parent her. She does not magically get "good judgment" when she becomes an adult. It's your job to tell her "The adult response here is to go to the doctor or go to CVS and pick up some medication." It's not just about respecting their autonomy - when people are young, they do not know things that older people know, as witnessed by this "yeast infection" your 18yo diagnosed herself that she won't talk to anyone about or medicate appropriately.
I make my own healthcare decisions as well, but that doesn't include "avoiding medical care" and calling it "making my own healthcare decisions."
OP. Yes, she makes her own healthcare decisions. I can’t force an adult to go to the doctor. How would you like if you were forced to go to the doctor against your wishes as an adult? Not good, right?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. My daughter is an adult now, so it's really not my job to make her go to the doctor. She makes her own healthcare decisions.
Based on her symptoms, it doesn't seem like a UTI or an STD—it appears to be a yeast infection. She's planning to eat yogurt and doesn't want to use any OTC treatments. I'm willing to buy something for her if she changes her mind, she still hasn’t,but I've heard clotrimazole 7 day is better than but the prices are a bit jarring.
Interesting what you perceive your job to be.
Anonymous wrote:OP. My daughter still doesnt know how to swallow a pill, but I think she might consider boric acid. Can I have a link?
Anonymous wrote:OP here. My daughter is an adult now, so it's really not my job to make her go to the doctor. She makes her own healthcare decisions.
Based on her symptoms, it doesn't seem like a UTI or an STD—it appears to be a yeast infection. She's planning to eat yogurt and doesn't want to use any OTC treatments. I'm willing to buy something for her if she changes her mind, she still hasn’t,but I've heard clotrimazole 7 day is better than but the prices are a bit jarring.
Anonymous wrote:OP here. Okay, I guess I'll have to wait until she decides she wants to go to the doctor herself. She really hates doctors and has been trying to find home remedies instead. At this point, there's only so much I can do, so I'll let her pursue that for now and hope she changes her mind if things don't improve.
Anonymous wrote:OP. My daughter doesn’t want to go the doctor, and she doesn’t want an OTC medication, and she dislikes medication. I’ve heard of multiple home remedies for treating vaginal yeast infections, but I’m not sure which is best. She says she’s had this infection for weeks now, but the burning sensation comes and goes, so she just kind of ignored for a while, but she wants to treat it now.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. Thanks for the replies. She wanted to use Fougera, because it’s something we already had at home, but she doesn’t want to get something new. Any ideas?
Why not walk into any drugstore in the country and buy the OVER THE COUNTER medication specifically dedicated to treating vaginal yeast infections?
I’m not sure why people are being so rude about this. I said she doesn’t want to use any medication, and wants something that isn’t medication. She’s willing to buy that, but not medication.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. My daughter still doesnt know how to swallow a pill, but I think she might consider boric acid. Can I have a link?
It's a suppository and it doesn't treat active yeast infections. But good lord, you are even more dysfunctional than I originally thought. Why didn't you teach her to swallow pills FFS? Does she have special needs?
She just always took liquid meds, and had a hard time swallowing pills.
You know the doctor can probably order whatever it is she needs as an oral suspension, right? That's not a reason to not do to the doctor.
You can't make her see a doctor but enabling poor life choices by getting medical advice from strangers on the internet is a whole other ball of wax. Telling your daughter "home remedies could make you much worse and you could get a lot sicker if you don't get treatment and spend a lot more time in medical settings" is what you do here.
If she doesn't like the doctor, she'll really be miserable if she let's it get out of control.
OP. Yes she knows, but still doesn’t want to go to the doctor. Her choice, she’ll have to figure it out.
Okay, then seriously, stop googling stuff on the internet and getting tips from strangers. I could right now tell you "Oh yes, buy X and do Y" and you shouldn't listen to me because I could be two cats in a trench coat who somehow learned to type.
You need to be unequivocal that she needs to seek actual medical advice, you recommend she seeks medical advice.
When she says "hey mom, should I shove yogurt up there" your response should be "that's an excellent question for a doctor."
She may be about to learn a very painful and very expensive lesson. Maybe she'll get lucky. I hope she does. Maybe you're about to end up with very expensive ER bill. I sincerely hope you don't.
But you gotta get off the internet and googling random stuff. It sends a message that what she's doing has your approval.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. My daughter still doesnt know how to swallow a pill, but I think she might consider boric acid. Can I have a link?
It's a suppository and it doesn't treat active yeast infections. But good lord, you are even more dysfunctional than I originally thought. Why didn't you teach her to swallow pills FFS? Does she have special needs?
She just always took liquid meds, and had a hard time swallowing pills.
You know the doctor can probably order whatever it is she needs as an oral suspension, right? That's not a reason to not do to the doctor.
You can't make her see a doctor but enabling poor life choices by getting medical advice from strangers on the internet is a whole other ball of wax. Telling your daughter "home remedies could make you much worse and you could get a lot sicker if you don't get treatment and spend a lot more time in medical settings" is what you do here.
If she doesn't like the doctor, she'll really be miserable if she let's it get out of control.
OP. Yes she knows, but still doesn’t want to go to the doctor. Her choice, she’ll have to figure it out.
Anonymous wrote:My 18 year old daughter has a vaginal yeast infection, and she says she's had it for a while now. The issue is she doesn't want to go to the doctor and wants to treat it at home.
Does anyone know any home remedies that actually work? We also have a prescription for Ketoconazole Cream 2% (Fougera) at home, and she wanted to use it. She’s getting conflicting reports online about whether it's okay to use for a vaginal yeast infection.
Can she use it? Has anyone dealt with this before or had success treating a yeast infection at home?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. My daughter still doesnt know how to swallow a pill, but I think she might consider boric acid. Can I have a link?
It's a suppository and it doesn't treat active yeast infections. But good lord, you are even more dysfunctional than I originally thought. Why didn't you teach her to swallow pills FFS? Does she have special needs?
She just always took liquid meds, and had a hard time swallowing pills.
You know the doctor can probably order whatever it is she needs as an oral suspension, right? That's not a reason to not do to the doctor.
You can't make her see a doctor but enabling poor life choices by getting medical advice from strangers on the internet is a whole other ball of wax. Telling your daughter "home remedies could make you much worse and you could get a lot sicker if you don't get treatment and spend a lot more time in medical settings" is what you do here.
If she doesn't like the doctor, she'll really be miserable if she let's it get out of control.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP. My daughter still doesnt know how to swallow a pill, but I think she might consider boric acid. Can I have a link?
It's a suppository and it doesn't treat active yeast infections. But good lord, you are even more dysfunctional than I originally thought. Why didn't you teach her to swallow pills FFS? Does she have special needs?
She just always took liquid meds, and had a hard time swallowing pills.