Face it, men aren't working hard enough to be attractive and it's 1/2 that reason and 1/2 the cost of kids + existential climate fear that is keeping birth rates low. Y'all fugly.

Just because you’re fat and trying to date out of your league does not prove your point. Plenty of heavy women are in relationships with men who are at their level.

And here we go: sling insults all you want. I’m slender and married to a guy who got fat. whomp whomp.

Your DH got fat by numbing the pain of being married to you with food, alcohol, or both. Poor guy.

You got fat because you love white wine and carbs. And by sitting on your gigantic @$$.

Anonymous wrote:I recently started dating after a 20 year marriage, and to my surprise met a guy whom I find extremely physically attractive. It made me realize that I cannot force myself to be with men whom I consider physically less attractive. I now actually question my past choices.

I see it happening all the time that women accept relationships with physically unappealing men, and it's just sad.

Guys, do yourselves and us a favor, and lose weight, get fit, up the grooming and start dressing well.

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Lol men in here getting salty because they’re getting called out. Please. Women have been taught from birth that looking good matters and as a result put in a ton of time and energy into their hair, skin, wardrobe, etc. We also know if we get fat that men will hate us even more than their general baseline disdain for women. Now that a woman doesn’t want to get with a fat greasy loser, they start crying.

Your view of men is very warped, and you need help with it.

Where on earth do you get that "if we get fat" that "men will hate us even more than their general baseline disdain for women"?

Most of the men on this board are fathers. I am. I have three daughters and a wife I love more than anything. In fact, I love my sisters, love my mother, and deeply care for many other women in my life. There is no "disdain" for women, in general or specifically. And almost all the other men I know feel the same.

If the men you are close to have a "general baseline disdain for women," you should not have them in your life.

My dude, pretending we don’t live in a misogynistic patriarchal society doesn’t help you prove your point. You can’t just say “it doesn’t exist!” When there is evidence absolutely everywhere.

Just because you’re fat and trying to date out of your league does not prove your point. Plenty of heavy women are in relationships with men who are at their level.

And here we go: sling insults all you want. I’m slender and married to a guy who got fat. whomp whomp.

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Lol men in here getting salty because they’re getting called out. Please. Women have been taught from birth that looking good matters and as a result put in a ton of time and energy into their hair, skin, wardrobe, etc. We also know if we get fat that men will hate us even more than their general baseline disdain for women. Now that a woman doesn’t want to get with a fat greasy loser, they start crying.

Your view of men is very warped, and you need help with it.

Where on earth do you get that "if we get fat" that "men will hate us even more than their general baseline disdain for women"?

Most of the men on this board are fathers. I am. I have three daughters and a wife I love more than anything. In fact, I love my sisters, love my mother, and deeply care for many other women in my life. There is no "disdain" for women, in general or specifically. And almost all the other men I know feel the same.

If the men you are close to have a "general baseline disdain for women," you should not have them in your life.

My dude, pretending we don’t live in a misogynistic patriarchal society doesn’t help you prove your point. You can’t just say “it doesn’t exist!” When there is evidence absolutely everywhere.

Just because you’re fat and trying to date out of your league does not prove your point. Plenty of heavy women are in relationships with men who are at their level.

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Anonymous wrote:That’s understandable. Let’s assume that the men that you’re involved with feel the same way. What’s your plan for the future? When aging and either wrinkles or obvious plastic surgery take over? Since very few elderly people are genuinely physically attractive, are you planning to be one of the very few?

OP here. Yes, I plan to maintain my looks well into old age. Nowadays totally possible. Jane Fonda looked better at 70 than at 35.

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Lol men in here getting salty because they’re getting called out. Please. Women have been taught from birth that looking good matters and as a result put in a ton of time and energy into their hair, skin, wardrobe, etc. We also know if we get fat that men will hate us even more than their general baseline disdain for women. Now that a woman doesn’t want to get with a fat greasy loser, they start crying.

Your view of men is very warped, and you need help with it.

Where on earth do you get that "if we get fat" that "men will hate us even more than their general baseline disdain for women"?

Most of the men on this board are fathers. I am. I have three daughters and a wife I love more than anything. In fact, I love my sisters, love my mother, and deeply care for many other women in my life. There is no "disdain" for women, in general or specifically. And almost all the other men I know feel the same.

If the men you are close to have a "general baseline disdain for women," you should not have them in your life.

My dude, pretending we don’t live in a misogynistic patriarchal society doesn’t help you prove your point. You can’t just say “it doesn’t exist!” When there is evidence absolutely everywhere.