Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 20:12     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

I think everyone talks about their past relationships when dating and so it would be obvious?
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 20:01     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There’s no such thing as a bi man.


+1.

A guy claiming to be bi is really gay.


+20
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 19:11     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

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Anonymous wrote:Lots of biphobia here. Being bi doesn't mean hypersexual, someone can have relationships with both men and women and be monogamous within relationships.


I don't think it's biphobia to have a preference against dating bi men. I have no problem with their behavior and have friends who are bi, but I only want to date straight men. I don't see this as any different than other preferences, like if I want to date Asian men it doesn't mean I'm racist it just means I prefer Asians. Why is this a problem?


Men are different from women when it comes to dating bi people of the opposite gender.

I think men are more likely to be okay with the idea as opposed to women. Most straight women are a hard no.

I wonder what's behind this difference
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 19:09     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How would know if a man is bi? Are there tell-tell signs?


Yes. Does he like to suck cock? That’s a sign.


But will he tell you he likes sucking d**k lol?
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 19:09     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

My FIL referred to the plumber as “the handsome young guy” and “sweet”. I thought this was a big red flag.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 18:57     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:Lots of biphobia here. Being bi doesn't mean hypersexual, someone can have relationships with both men and women and be monogamous within relationships.


I don't think it's biphobia to have a preference against dating bi men. I have no problem with their behavior and have friends who are bi, but I only want to date straight men. I don't see this as any different than other preferences, like if I want to date Asian men it doesn't mean I'm racist it just means I prefer Asians. Why is this a problem?
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 17:23     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How would know if a man is bi? Are there tell-tell signs?


Yes. Does he like to suck cock? That’s a sign.

Agreed… Even if he sucks your $trap0n like he’s sucking a man, he’s bi.


No, sucking an strap-on makes you a person who likes sucking strap-ons, and possibly a person with fantasies. It doesn't make you bi.

The biphobia on this thread is effing wild!
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 17:22     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.


That’s nice, sweetie. You did you. Or them. Whatevs.

There is NO WAY I’d date a guy who does other guys. Ewww no.


Its interesting. Men are more likely to be okay with dating a current or former bi woman, but women are not. Why is that? Can some women explain why.


I think it’s that we know the degrading and disgusting things these gay men do to each other (or want to do to each other) which is such a turn-off. I mean, just, ewww!


Isn’t most of it the same stuff we do with men or want to do with men?


No, it's obviously not. Lots of women view "A" as taboo and unacceptable for them. It's the main way gay men have sex. It's also inherently riskier in terms of STDs whereas lesbian sex is less risky than hetero sex in that respect.


Where are you getting this "statistic"? Ass, both in a penetrative sense and in an eating sense, isn't nearly as "taboo" as you're trying to make it, and plenty of women enjoy this (including gay women, which might surprise you). It's also not "the main way" gay men have sex, just A way.

You might have a minor argument re: STI risks, but most people old enough to have anal sex are aware of this and can choose to take precautions. All sex carries some risk, and the difference here isn't the major dealbreaker you're trying to make it out be.


NP. Um, yes it is.


"Girls" over a decade ago says otherwise, but go off.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 17:04     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:How would know if a man is bi? Are there tell-tell signs?


Yes. Does he like to suck cock? That’s a sign.

Agreed… Even if he sucks your $trap0n like he’s sucking a man, he’s bi.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 16:38     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:How would know if a man is bi? Are there tell-tell signs?


Yes. Does he like to suck cock? That’s a sign.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 16:37     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.


That’s nice, sweetie. You did you. Or them. Whatevs.

There is NO WAY I’d date a guy who does other guys. Ewww no.


Its interesting. Men are more likely to be okay with dating a current or former bi woman, but women are not. Why is that? Can some women explain why.


I think it’s that we know the degrading and disgusting things these gay men do to each other (or want to do to each other) which is such a turn-off. I mean, just, ewww!


Isn’t most of it the same stuff we do with men or want to do with men?


No, it's obviously not. Lots of women view "A" as taboo and unacceptable for them. It's the main way gay men have sex. It's also inherently riskier in terms of STDs whereas lesbian sex is less risky than hetero sex in that respect.


Where are you getting this "statistic"? Ass, both in a penetrative sense and in an eating sense, isn't nearly as "taboo" as you're trying to make it, and plenty of women enjoy this (including gay women, which might surprise you). It's also not "the main way" gay men have sex, just A way.

You might have a minor argument re: STI risks, but most people old enough to have anal sex are aware of this and can choose to take precautions. All sex carries some risk, and the difference here isn't the major dealbreaker you're trying to make it out be.


NP. Um, yes it is.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 11:42     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Anyone who supports ‘bi’ behavior needs to visit sodom and gomorrah


Jesus was bi




Technicality: as Jesus loves the entire world, he's pan, not bi.
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 11:41     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

Anonymous wrote:I saw stats somewhere saying that women who identify as bisexual (and who may have been with women) typically go on to be in long term relationships and marriages with men. I think it was 85% or something of women who identify as bisexual being with men in committed relationships. It was much lower for men who identify as bisexual - more of them were either continuing to be with men and women (rather than getting into a long term relationship / marriage or were in relationships with other men. The % that was in a committed long term relationship or marriage with a woman was quite low.


"bi now, gay later" is a trope, and also bi erasure. Please do better, or cite your alleged stats from... "somewhere"...
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 11:40     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

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Anonymous wrote:I have a theory that the most sexual, masculine, athletic men are often bisexual but stifled by society. This is based on about a dozen guys I have been friends with throughout the years. I think bisexuality is more the norm for both sexes (look at ancient greece). It’s not a dig on your manhood or whatever if you are into sex with somebody.


That’s nice, sweetie. You did you. Or them. Whatevs.

There is NO WAY I’d date a guy who does other guys. Ewww no.


Its interesting. Men are more likely to be okay with dating a current or former bi woman, but women are not. Why is that? Can some women explain why.


I think it’s that we know the degrading and disgusting things these gay men do to each other (or want to do to each other) which is such a turn-off. I mean, just, ewww!


Isn’t most of it the same stuff we do with men or want to do with men?


Girl, none of us *want* to do that stuff


Oh, honey... Sorry you don't like sex, but many of us do. Poor thing...
Anonymous
Post 02/22/2026 11:17     Subject: How would know if a man is bi?

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who supports ‘bi’ behavior needs to visit sodom and gomorrah


Jesus was bi


Source


Pretty sure it’s in the bible