Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My fear is that he is a hobosexual. He is never going to leave. Partner kicked him out and your place is now his.

+1

He isn’t a hobosexual for sure (I’ll not fo into details as it’s too much personal info but he wouldn’t be able to stay even if he wanted to).

No, he’s not. Why is he coming to town. Why can’t he stay in a hotel.

Anonymous wrote:What sort of 40 yr old married man crashes on opposite gender friend's couch if they've some history and she isn't over him? This guy is cheap and cheat?

I wouldn’t say I’m “not over him”, I wasn’t that into him to begin with. It’s not a couch as I said before and I regret using the figure of speech for old times sake. He most likely has no idea that I’m even thinking about it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think some things need to be explained.
First, we are both not from the U.S.
Where we are from, looks are important.
Staying at a hotel isn’t as customary. If there’s a friend who has a spare room it’s totally normal to crush at someone’s house.
As for “forgetting” his wallet he already said he owed me and I said it was fine but he could pay for a meal if he wanted to. I know DCUM’s imagination runs wild but he isn’t a cheapskate

If it's "totally normal" to crash at an opposite sex friend's house, why are you asking us if he's going to make a move?

The Opposite sex friend part is less normal I’ll admit. Also it can go both ways

What sort of 40 yr old married man crashes on opposite gender friend's couch if they've some history and she isn't over him? This guy is cheap and cheat?

Anonymous wrote:In what culture does look not matter? In what culture does it matter more?

Cheating culture really isn't about looks

Anonymous wrote:What do I think will happen? I think you are going to embarrass yourself by slobbering all over him.

Nah you don’t have to worry about it

Anonymous wrote:In what culture does look not matter? In what culture does it matter more?

Well in the U.S. and I think western countries in general it matters less how a woman looks.
Asia and Eastern Europe are more into “a woman needs to look great” thing

Anonymous wrote:The real question you haven’t answered is - if he does hit on you, will you hook up with him? What would you do?

Of course I will vehemently deny his advances.
Will he hit on me tho

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is he a loser? What 40-year old man asks to crash on his friend's couch? Is his wife ok with this?

+1 what the heck. Is he cheap and trying to avoid a hotel? How is his wife okay with him crashing on the couch of a single friend he slept with years ago? That is pretty nuts.

I doubt the wife knows about the past

Anonymous wrote:Okay so my question wasn’t whether to say yes or no.
My question is - will he make the move?
Honestly I don’t think so but I am curious
-OP

It will be really disrespecting you and his own marriage if he does. Maybe he has a sex-less marriage? Maybe he thinks that you will be desperate enough? Who knows? Do let us know if he uses your hole for his pole. We are all waiting with bated breath, since this is the most excitement we have had in a while.

In what culture does look not matter? In what culture does it matter more?

He won’t make a move on you. He’s married. You are delusional.

What do I think will happen? I think you are going to embarrass yourself by slobbering all over him.

Anonymous wrote:I think some things need to be explained.
First, we are both not from the U.S.
Where we are from, looks are important.
Staying at a hotel isn’t as customary. If there’s a friend who has a spare room it’s totally normal to crush at someone’s house.
As for “forgetting” his wallet he already said he owed me and I said it was fine but he could pay for a meal if he wanted to. I know DCUM’s imagination runs wild but he isn’t a cheapskate

If it's "totally normal" to crash at an opposite sex friend's house, why are you asking us if he's going to make a move?