Anonymous wrote:OP, is it possible you may have given away or lent these items to someone else, or perhaps a few people, and the fact that you lent them (or even gave them away) has slipped your mind or just been forgotten? Could you have taken them to a Goodwill (either an official location or one of their dumpsters) or put our for "trash & treasures" in your local community? It can be easy to forget things like this, especially if you were listening to loud music at the time or had your mind on something else. If the sister in question is a first responder or veteran you could at least give her some grace and/or say "thank you for your service."

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