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Anonymous wrote:Two posters mentioned accounting. Wouldn’t long hours be required Jan-apr in the public accounting fields?

Do corporate accounting. DH did the Big 4/6/8 (or whatever number they’ve merged/split into) and indeed did mega hours in those months. Only managers and partners made The Money. Been on the corporate side now for decades and likes it and its work/life balance much better. Still tedious work at times, and you’re often the bearer of bad (financial) news but it’s steady, respectable work where Al is just another tool in toolbox - not much different than EBS/software replacing columned ledger paper. 🤪

People still need to get paid and someone’s gotta count the last penny (even though they don’t make ‘em anymore). A good accountant is often the last one let go in a buyout or even brought over in a merger. Ask me how we know…..

Neither DC has any interest in accounting but oldest is pursuing the BSN/RN/CRNA route mentioned upthread with the plan of maximum flexibility and commensurate pay given the time/effort for the credentials.

Anonymous wrote:Don’t do medicine. Won’t make it through if you don’t love it and love taking care of all kinds of people.

Burnout is from so many factors.
I’m not burned out because I’ve decreased hours.

Worked full day yesterday as fast as I could with literally no breaks. Snuck in a bite here and there. Was exhausted by the end of the work day. But absolutely loved the day because the work still fascinates me and I truly enjoy connecting with patients, helping patients and learning from them. Don’t at all mind that on call over the holidays.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there's also a concept of putting your dues in. I'm a lawyer and I have good work/life balance now, but my first couple years out of law school were a slog. Same with my spouse, who's an engineer. He has work/life balance now but his first few years he had to do a lot of travel and long hours, especially when he was also finishing his secondary degree. Now this time lined up for us, so it didn't impact our relationship (we got married out of college).

There's an aspect of learning your field so you get more efficient later ad well.

But that's something to consider that your mid to late 20s can be slog time while you build skills and prove yourself.

+1. I slogged for 5 yrs and then coasted for the next 35. It was worth it.

Anonymous wrote:I have a sophomore who would like to have a comfortable lifestyle. He’s a smart kid, who does well in school, who likes a comfortable lifestyle. He thinks he would be happier with a job he “didn’t hate” that gave him $ to do what he likes on the weekends, than a job he loves with uncertain income, or one with long hours.

He does well in school, math comes easily to him. He’s wondered about careers in data, finance, etc . . . Someone told him patent attorney is a good choice if you want interesting work and a good life style.



Any suggestions for majors and careers that might be a fit?

Anonymous wrote:I have a sophomore who would like to have a comfortable lifestyle. He’s a smart kid, who does well in school, who likes a comfortable lifestyle. He thinks he would be happier with a job he “didn’t hate” that gave him $ to do what he likes on the weekends, than a job he loves with uncertain income, or one with long hours.

He does well in school, math comes easily to him. He’s wondered about careers in data, finance, etc . . . Someone told him patent attorney is a good choice if you want interesting work and a good life style.

Any suggestions for majors and careers that might be a fit?

Anonymous wrote:I think there's also a concept of putting your dues in. I'm a lawyer and I have good work/life balance now, but my first couple years out of law school were a slog. Same with my spouse, who's an engineer. He has work/life balance now but his first few years he had to do a lot of travel and long hours, especially when he was also finishing his secondary degree. Now this time lined up for us, so it didn't impact our relationship (we got married out of college).

There's an aspect of learning your field so you get more efficient later ad well.

But that's something to consider that your mid to late 20s can be slog time while you build skills and prove yourself.

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Anonymous wrote:My spouse has this in biotech but put in a solid decade after undergrads to get the degrees/skills for it. Still, it’s worth it if you can hang for first that ten years.

I think OP’s child is missing the time perspective. A lot of us that are advanced in our career and have a comfortable life worked long hours in our 20s and 30s to get here.

There’s no magic profession that starts you in six figures with 40 hours and significant flexibility. You’ve got to earn it.

agree. surgeon mom who now works 30-40 hour weeks, controllable schedule, ~400k. but it took 8 years of 100+ hour weeks during residency (salary<100k) and another 10 years of 50-60 hour weeks with salary slowly increasing from 250k base. it's a lot of work but i love my patients, colleagues, and teaching.

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Anonymous wrote:I have a sophomore who would like to have a comfortable lifestyle. He’s a smart kid, who does well in school, who likes a comfortable lifestyle. He thinks he would be happier with a job he “didn’t hate” that gave him $ to do what he likes on the weekends, than a job he loves with uncertain income, or one with long hours.

He does well in school, math comes easily to him. He’s wondered about careers in data, finance, etc . . . Someone told him patent attorney is a good choice if you want interesting work and a good life style.

Any suggestions for majors and careers that might be a fit?

Im looking for the same!
-50 yo

Yeah, same here.

- much older than 50

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Anonymous wrote:Every inexplicably wealthy person I know who doesn’t seem to work much is in commercial real estate or real estate development.

This is a good one.

I’ve also found that people who work in sales (corporate sales, not hawking some cheap little product) tend to work very little for their pay.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here,

He knows he needs to put in dues. He can work hard. He doesn't want a life that is all work, and he wants to eventually (not immediately at 22) be able to enjoy more expensive hobbies.

At this point, he says he's not interested in marriage or kids. Of course, he's 15 so that could change. For that matter, he could go to college and find something that fascinates him.

I think he'd be a good accountant, if it meant a few months of working around the clock, and then 9 months where he'd have weekends free, and could afford a nice vacation and some expensive equipment for his hobby.

My advice is to live somewhere affordable. We moved from DC to a more.affordable city years ago. Money goes much further, life balance is much better.