Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:59     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:First 6 months- nothing
Next 6 months - about 2x a week
Late 40s early 50s
Spend anywhere from 45min to 4 hours per "session"






why nothing in first 6 months? are you birds that are migrating to a different location? lol


I guess this does require some context:
Well, when you have a dismissive avoidant spouse and they had an affair and refuse to work on their (and our) issues, you finally give up, let the process play out and move on.
The next 6 months would be far more than 2X/week, but for kids, work and life getting in the way.
So yes, migrating to a new location I guess!


do you think sometimes a dismissive avoidant also controls sex by saying other things such as medical issues, not feeling it, too tired, etc?


Yes, 100% I believe they do.
However, that was not the case here (specifically for 2025) it had been much longer without it- The past affair and reluctance to engage in moving the couples counseling forward was the main issue. This was the last gasps of the relationship in the final 6 months at the start of 2025.

Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:35     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Every other day. 51/49.


Gross.



NP
Serious question …

Why is that gross?


Because they aren’t getting laid and are jealous.


Exactly!
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:27     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Average probably once a week (which is sad to type out) - but it looks more like nothing for a stretch when we're stressed/busy/tired(/not to mention postpartum, at the beginning of the year), and then 2-3x/week for a stretch. Maybe this should be my NY resolution - to be sure to initiate at least once a week to get our numbers up!

43/44
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:26     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:How old are you both?


Why everything has to be a competition?
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:24     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Average 3, working around busy travel schedule

45 & 48 - married 21 years
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:14     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:3x per week, with 4 sloppy Blowjeezy’s added on.


how old are you guys? I love BJs all the time and get it from my new partner..


45 and 26


26 is the woman?


Yup
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 12:01     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:3x per week, with 4 sloppy Blowjeezy’s added on.


how old are you guys? I love BJs all the time and get it from my new partner..


45 and 26


26 is the woman?
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 11:59     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
48 and 62: we have sex when I’m ovulating because that’s when I’m the most into it. So a bunch at one time of the month.
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 11:54     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:3x per week, with 4 sloppy Blowjeezy’s added on.


how old are you guys? I love BJs all the time and get it from my new partner..


45 and 26
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 11:50     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:First 6 months- nothing
Next 6 months - about 2x a week
Late 40s early 50s
Spend anywhere from 45min to 4 hours per "session"






why nothing in first 6 months? are you birds that are migrating to a different location? lol


I guess this does require some context:
Well, when you have a dismissive avoidant spouse and they had an affair and refuse to work on their (and our) issues, you finally give up, let the process play out and move on.
The next 6 months would be far more than 2X/week, but for kids, work and life getting in the way.
So yes, migrating to a new location I guess!


do you think sometimes a dismissive avoidant also controls sex by saying other things such as medical issues, not feeling it, too tired, etc?
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 11:49     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:3x per week, with 4 sloppy Blowjeezy’s added on.


how old are you guys? I love BJs all the time and get it from my new partner..
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 11:29     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
This was a terrible year due to my health condition. None. Battling cancer.
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 10:22     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:O times.

Both 65.

Not really a choice. Health issues on both sides.

Sex doesn't last forever in many cases.



It’s perfectly fine as long as both spouses are okay. Problem comes when one spouse unilaterally declares the marriage sexless and expects the other spouse to be okay with it.


The reverse is more problematic.
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 10:19     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
3x per week, with 4 sloppy Blowjeezy’s added on.
Anonymous
Post 12/30/2025 10:07     Subject: How much sex do you think you averaged per week in 2025
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:First 6 months- nothing
Next 6 months - about 2x a week
Late 40s early 50s
Spend anywhere from 45min to 4 hours per "session"






why nothing in first 6 months? are you birds that are migrating to a different location? lol


I guess this does require some context:
Well, when you have a dismissive avoidant spouse and they had an affair and refuse to work on their (and our) issues, you finally give up, let the process play out and move on.
The next 6 months would be far more than 2X/week, but for kids, work and life getting in the way.
So yes, migrating to a new location I guess!