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Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

So what's a solution here? Never marry? Invite thirds for variety for your wife, and be a c..ck ?

Learn your way around a clitoris and get it through your head that you wouldn't want sex either if you never got to come.

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Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

So what's a solution here? Never marry? Invite thirds for variety for your wife, and be a c..ck ?

Make due with less sex, understanding that often it's not a reflection on your personal worth and that less sex is the price you pay for the non-sexual benefits of a long term relationship. I realize that kind of sucks. But it's better than thinking that a wife's sexual desire for you is purely a function of your attractiveness, abilities in bed, and/or contributions as a husband. That notion leads to resentment when you notice that some truly shitty people are having more sex than you.

Admitting your skills are lacking and then learning how to please a woman won't kill you. The lies you men tell yourself are just embarrassing.

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Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

Have you tried not sucking in bed? I'm a super horny 40-something divorcee and my ex-husband couldn't convince me to roll over because he absolutely sucked in bed. I told him so too and also told him in detail what I need. Yet he kept pretending he had no idea how to fix our dead bedroom because he really just wanted to stick his prick in, get himself off, and then go back to sleep like the selfish POS he is.

The answer to most questions about why women don't want sex with men is that most of you suck in bed. But you'd rather read and write rambling pseudoscientific treatises on female sexuality than hear the basic truth that you're a selfish shitty lay and you wouldn't want to have sex with yourself either.

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Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

So what's a solution here? Never marry? Invite thirds for variety for your wife, and be a c..ck ?

Make do with less sex, understanding that often it's not a reflection on your personal worth and that less sex is the price you pay for the non-sexual benefits of a long term relationship. I realize that kind of sucks. But it's better than thinking that a wife's sexual desire for you is purely a function of your attractiveness, abilities in bed, and/or contributions as a husband. That notion leads to resentment when you notice that some truly shitty people are having more sex than you.

I’ve known a man who was inviting thirds for wife. They also had FMF threesomes but he liked MFM more because his wife was pleasured

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Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

So what's a solution here? Never marry? Invite thirds for variety for your wife, and be a c..ck ?

Make due with less sex, understanding that often it's not a reflection on your personal worth and that less sex is the price you pay for the non-sexual benefits of a long term relationship. I realize that kind of sucks. But it's better than thinking that a wife's sexual desire for you is purely a function of your attractiveness, abilities in bed, and/or contributions as a husband. That notion leads to resentment when you notice that some truly shitty people are having more sex than you.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

So what's a solution here? Never marry? Invite thirds for variety for your wife, and be a c..ck ?

Anonymous wrote:The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

This illustrates that men's sex drive is stronger. The fact that the women have to be divorced shows that their drive depends on new relationship energy. Unlike with men, the drive is not strong enough to be sustainable in a long term relationship. (This is obviously a generality - there are women who maintain a strong drive throughout long relationships. It's just not as common as with men.)

The horniest people I know are divorced women in their 40s and it’s not even close.

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Anonymous wrote:If you think that, you've obviously never been with recently divorced women in their 40s. Oh how I've loved them all.

Why recently divorced is so important here and not the age? I am 44M and been with women who are in 40s and 30s. One out of five, I find someone in 40s that have high sex drive to enjoy doing sex earlier in the relationship or all the time. Most of the time, I see women doing all kinds of things to attract during the earlier part of the relationship but then it slowly fades away.

Have you considered that you suck in bed? It's hard to remain motivated about sex with a lousy lay. That probably explains why woman after woman loses interest in keeping your attention.

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It could be but then why they stay in relationship or marriage? Also, it is very common knowledge that a lot of women use sex to attract men but then it goes downhill.

A better question is why you're the common denominator yet you haven't considered the most obvious explanation: you're the problem. That's that delusional male ego.

Divorced woman in my 40s. I can explain why my sex drive is higher now. In my 20s it was inhibited by prohibitions from my family. Not to have sex before marriage, date only those who want marriage etc.
In my 30s while married I was exhausted by 9-5 job and childcare.
Only as an empty nester in my 40s I found this window of opportunity to explore sexuality. I had 2 partners in my 20s; 1 partner (husband ) in my 30s-early 40s. In mid-late 40s I had 7 partners and enjoy variety more than anything else . Men are all different in bed

I'm a divorced man and this post captures the thinking of many women I've dated, although most say it out loud. I feel that way myself. And it's not like I could say one was "the best." I had a few amazing emotional and sexual experiences.