Anonymous
11/27/2025 10:24
Subject: 20 yr old - Sophomore College Living Situation
Anonymous wrote:I would think she’s too young to be officially living with some guy. If she gave up her apartment, she’d have no alternative place to go if something happened to their relationship. That’s way too much pressure on a twenty year old.
+100
Anonymous
11/27/2025 10:20
Subject: Re:20 yr old - Sophomore College Living Situation
I have a 21-year-old daughter in college.
If I were in OP's situation, I would insist on my daughter having her own apartment.
It does not exactly look classy for a 20-year-old young lady to be living with her boyfriend. He may be "Mr. Right," and so she should treat the relationship with care -- meaning do not make herself too available. It looks a bit desperate for a young lady of 20 to be basically living with her boyfriend.
It sounds like you've already helped to move up from blue collar to middle class. Help your daughter aspire to even higher than that, through classy behavior.
If I were in OP's situation, I would insist on my daughter having her own apartment.
It does not exactly look classy for a 20-year-old young lady to be living with her boyfriend. He may be "Mr. Right," and so she should treat the relationship with care -- meaning do not make herself too available. It looks a bit desperate for a young lady of 20 to be basically living with her boyfriend.
It sounds like you've already helped to move up from blue collar to middle class. Help your daughter aspire to even higher than that, through classy behavior.
Anonymous
11/26/2025 07:15
Subject: 20 yr old - Sophomore College Living Situation
Anonymous wrote:I would think she’s too young to be officially living with some guy. If she gave up her apartment, she’d have no alternative place to go if something happened to their relationship. That’s way too much pressure on a twenty year old.
+1