Anonymous
11/19/2025 13:04
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Not illegal if they are on the same plan.
it’s illegal if it doesn’t have your name on it. period.
But also, if your husband had herpes that you assume he got from a hookup and you didn’t get it-at the time when it’s most contagious-then it explains why your husband was cheating. Does it make it right? Of course not. But it’s why. You weren’t having sex.
I get the EOBs for my husband and our children because the insurance is in my name. The email is addressed to ME.
Anonymous
11/19/2025 13:02
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.
It's misplaced anger and it's easier to be mad at a third party than at the person you married because that was your choice to marry them. It's like Psych 101 - you really don't understand this?
Why not be angry at both? Makes sense to me.
Anonymous
11/19/2025 13:01
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.
It's misplaced anger and it's easier to be mad at a third party than at the person you married because that was your choice to marry them. It's like Psych 101 - you really don't understand this?
Anonymous
11/19/2025 12:57
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Have you exposed AP if they happened to be someone from work? Not because of wanting your DH back, but because you ante angry over disrupting your life and beautiful family? I just can’t get over the fact that I will have to share my kid for holidays and breaks, and have them go through this trauma. It sounds like a low road, but curious of you did it. Of course, there is the risk that your spouse will lose their job and the highly stellar reputation..
What are you looking to gain here? What if it doesn't work out the way you want? What if the AP's spouse doesn't care/already knew? What if no one at work is upset? Then you're going to look petty and pathetic for no gain. You can't control other people or their reactions so I would leave it alone and focus on yourself and your children.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 21:47
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I haven’t been through this but I think I probably would. For exactly the same reason. Sharing my kids would make me so sad and angry that I probably couldn’t help myself. The thought of a Christmas without them would make me do insane things.
This is why we need to go back to being able to sue for adultery. People should not be able to just do this and get whatever they want.
I absolutely agree. fAFO doesn’t apply in divorce scout and it 100% ought to. You blow up the life? You get less.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 21:20
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I haven’t been through this but I think I probably would. For exactly the same reason. Sharing my kids would make me so sad and angry that I probably couldn’t help myself. The thought of a Christmas without them would make me do insane things.
This is why we need to go back to being able to sue for adultery. People should not be able to just do this and get whatever they want.
Amen!
I agree. Cheating should be costly. Just get a divorce first.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 21:07
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I haven’t been through this but I think I probably would. For exactly the same reason. Sharing my kids would make me so sad and angry that I probably couldn’t help myself. The thought of a Christmas without them would make me do insane things.
This is why we need to go back to being able to sue for adultery. People should not be able to just do this and get whatever they want.
Is what they want freedom from you?
Freedom would be divorce, not cheating. Cheating is only right when you have no morals, principles or capability to love anyone besides yourself.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 21:05
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I haven’t been through this but I think I probably would. For exactly the same reason. Sharing my kids would make me so sad and angry that I probably couldn’t help myself. The thought of a Christmas without them would make me do insane things.
This is why we need to go back to being able to sue for adultery. People should not be able to just do this and get whatever they want.
Amen!
Anonymous
11/18/2025 20:56
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:APs are so dangerous. Stay away at all costs.
+1
Betrayed wives can be pretty dangerous as well. You best not fk with some of them or pray to god they don’t find out.
No, they aren’t. They are weak and sad. For every Elin, there are ten of you.
Not the ones I know. They are thriving and glad to be rid of the cheating dead weight.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 20:56
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I haven’t been through this but I think I probably would. For exactly the same reason. Sharing my kids would make me so sad and angry that I probably couldn’t help myself. The thought of a Christmas without them would make me do insane things.
This is why we need to go back to being able to sue for adultery. People should not be able to just do this and get whatever they want.
Is what they want freedom from you?
Anonymous
11/18/2025 20:46
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:I haven’t been through this but I think I probably would. For exactly the same reason. Sharing my kids would make me so sad and angry that I probably couldn’t help myself. The thought of a Christmas without them would make me do insane things.
This is why we need to go back to being able to sue for adultery. People should not be able to just do this and get whatever they want.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 20:08
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:APs are so dangerous. Stay away at all costs.
+1
Betrayed wives can be pretty dangerous as well. You best not fk with some of them or pray to god they don’t find out.
Like that woman who had the name of a kitchen appliance.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 20:07
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:APs are so dangerous. Stay away at all costs.
+1
Betrayed wives can be pretty dangerous as well. You best not fk with some of them or pray to god they don’t find out.
No, they aren’t. They are weak and sad. For every Elin, there are ten of you.
Anonymous
11/18/2025 13:58
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:I am about to call his wife, I hope she takes everything that his first wife didn’t take and the kids see him in the light for once. If not, at least she will know the selfish coward she married. Maybe we will become friends.
Nice. Encourage her to use the knowledge to build her case before she confronts him. Knowledge is power!
Anonymous
11/18/2025 13:54
Subject: Exposing AP?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don’t understand why you all care about the AP. It’s your spouse who broke your vows. I really don’t get it.
I think it's human nature to hate them both. It's why in many jurisdictions, if you murder the AP after discovering infidelity, your sentence might be reduced to voluntary manslaughter.
Psycho. Jesus.